Thursday, June 11, 2026

Your Lord Provides Without Limit

 السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

إِنَّ الْحَمْدَ لِلَّهِ، نَحْمَدُهُ، وَنَسْتَعِينُهُ، وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ، وَنَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا، وَمِنْ سَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا. مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ، وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ.

وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ سَيِّدَنَا مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ.

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ وَبَارِكْ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَأَصْحَابِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

أَمَّا بَعْدُ:

My dear brothers and sisters,

There are some words that we repeat so often that we almost stop hearing them.

Rizq. Barakah. Tawakkul. Duʿā.

We say them. We write them. We decorate our homes with them. We send them in messages. We say, “May Allah put barakah in it.”

But what is barakah?

Barakah is not only more. Sometimes barakah is less that becomes enough. Sometimes barakah is little that feeds many. Sometimes barakah is water in the desert. Sometimes barakah is a date in the hand of a hungry person. Sometimes barakah is one honest income that carries a family with dignity. Sometimes barakah is a child who grows with light, even if the house is simple. Sometimes barakah is a school, a masjid, a home, or a community that does not have much, but whatever it has is used with taqwā. And sometimes barakah is Allah showing His servant that the visible means are small, but the Lord of the means is not small.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The modern heart has a problem. It believes too much in the visible. It believes in numbers. It believes in capacity. It believes in resources. It believes in donors. It believes in storage. It believes in rainfall charts. It believes in budgets. It believes in who we know, what we own, what is in the account, what is in the cupboard, what is in the pot, what is in the well.

All of that has its place.

Islam does not teach us to be careless. Islam does not teach us to abandon planning. Islam does not teach us to leave the camel untied and call that tawakkul. But Islam also refuses to let the heart worship the means.

The means are real. But the means are not Lord.

The staff is not Allah. The rock is not Allah. The cloud is not Allah. The pot is not Allah. The hand is not Allah. The saint is not Allah. 

Everything and everyone is needy before Allah.

And yet Allah may place His barakah through a staff, through a rock, through a cloud, through a pot, through a handful of dates, through the duʿā of a Prophet, through the sincerity of a hidden servant, through the charity of a farmer, through the tears of a mother, through the small act of a believer who has almost nothing except trust.

This is not superstition. This is tawḥīd.

The Qur’an gives us the anchor:

كُلَّمَا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا زَكَرِيَّا ٱلْمِحْرَابَ وَجَدَ عِندَهَا رِزْقًۭا ۖ

 قَالَ يَـٰمَرْيَمُ أَنَّىٰ لَكِ هَـٰذَا ۖ

 قَالَتْ هُوَ مِنْ عِندِ ٱللَّهِ ۖ

 إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَرْزُقُ مَن يَشَآءُ بِغَيْرِ حِسَابٍ

Every time Zakariyyā عليه السلام entered the chamber Maryam عليها السلام in the miḥrāb, he found provision with her. He asked, “O Maryam, where did this come from?” She said, “It is from Allah. Surely Allah provides for whom He wills without measure.” Sūrat Āl ʿImrān 3:37.

Look at the question.

أَنَّىٰ لَكِ هَـٰذَا

Where did this come from? If it was not asked by a Prophet, that is the question of the limited mind. But the Prophets ask questions to help teach us.

Where is the source? Where is the route? Who brought it? How did it enter? What is the explanation?

Maryam عليها السلام does not give a long explanation. She does not say: perhaps someone left it here. She does not say: I arranged it. She does not say: I know how this works.

She says:

هُوَ مِنْ عِندِ ٱللَّهِ

It is from Allah. That is not ignorance. That is knowledge. Because the deepest knowledge is to see the Giver behind the gift.

The fruit may be in the basket, but it is from Allah. The salary may come from the employer, but it is from Allah. The child may be born through parents, but the soul is from Allah. The rain may fall from the cloud, but the cloud is commanded by Allah. The food may be cooked in the kitchen, but the provision is from Allah. The doctor may treat, but healing is from Allah. The teacher may teach, but guidance is from Allah. The farmer may plant, but growth is from Allah. The believer must learn to see through the means without denying the means.

This is the balance. Do not deny the cup. But do not worship the cup. Do not deny the hand. But do not forget the One who opens the hand.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The Qur’an does not only tell us that Allah provides. It shows us how Allah breaks the arrogance of calculation.

Mūsā عليه السلام asks for water for his people. Allah commands him to strike the rock with his staff. A rock, by itself, is not a spring. A staff, by itself, does not make water. But when Allah commands, the hard thing becomes soft, the dry thing becomes flowing, and twelve springs burst forth for twelve tribes. Then Allah says: eat and drink from the provision of Allah, and do not spread corruption in the earth. Sūrat al-Baqarah 2:60.

Notice the lesson.

Water came from a rock. But the command after water was not: become arrogant. It was not: now you are special, so behave as you wish. It was: eat, drink, and do not corrupt the earth. Abundance without adab becomes corruption. Provision without gratitude becomes entitlement. Barakah without humility becomes a test.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Maryam عليها السلام appears again in Sūrat Maryam. She is alone. She is in pain. She is carrying a burden that people will not understand. And Allah says to her: do not grieve. Your Lord has placed a stream beneath you. Then she is told to shake the trunk of the date palm so fresh dates fall for her. Sūrat Maryam 19:24–26.

This is one of the most beautiful balances in the Qur’an.

Allah gives a stream without her digging. But He commands her to shake the palm. The stream teaches us that Allah can provide without visible effort. The shaking teaches us that the servant must still move.

Even if the movement is small. Even if the body is weak. Even if the heart is tired. Even if the tree seems too strong. Shake the trunk. Take the means.

But do not think the dates fell because your hand was powerful. They fell because Allah is generous.

My dear brothers and sisters,

ʿĪsā عليه السلام was asked by the disciples about a table spread from heaven. The request was about food, but it was not only food. It was reassurance. It was witnessing. It was the heart wanting to taste that Allah is near. ʿĪsā عليه السلام prayed, and Allah answered, while warning that a sign increases responsibility. Sūrat al-Mā’idah 5:112–115.

Miracles are not entertainment. Karāmāt are not theatre. Wonders are not toys. When Allah shows you a sign, the sign is not asking you to become louder. It is asking you to become more obedient.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The shortest sūrah in the Qur’an opens with abundance:

إِنَّآ أَعْطَيْنَـٰكَ ٱلْكَوْثَرَ

“Indeed, We have given you al-Kawthar.”

Al-Kawthar is abundant good. Sūrat al-Kawthar begins not with what the Prophet ﷺ lacks, but with what Allah has given him.

This is a Qur’anic education of the heart. The world may say: you are cut off. Allah says: you have been given abundance. The world may count your enemies. Allah tells you to count His gifts. The world may measure your outward resources. Allah teaches you that the heart connected to Him is not poor.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Rasoolullah ﷺ did not teach abundance as a theory only. Allah manifested barakah through him again and again.

Sayyiduna Jābir رضي الله عنه narrates that they had only a little water. The Prophet ﷺ placed his blessed hand in the vessel, spread his fingers, and called the people. Water gushed from between his fingers. The people drank and performed wuḍūʾ. But listen to the words of the Prophet ﷺ:

الْبَرَكَةُ مِنَ اللَّهِ

“The blessing is from Allah.”

That one sentence protects the heart from exaggeration and dryness at the same time. The water came through his blessed hand. But the barakah was from Allah. This is our creed.

We love Rasoolullah ﷺ. We honour his miracles. We send ṣalāh and salām upon him. But we do not make him independent of Allah. His greatness is that he is the perfect servant of Allah.

عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ

His servant and His messenger.

My dear brothers and sisters,

At the trench, there was hunger. Not slight hunger. Real hunger. Stones were tied to stomachs.

Sayyiduna Jābir رضي الله عنه prepared a small amount of food. He thought perhaps the Prophet ﷺ would come with one or two men. But the Prophet ﷺ invited the people. The pot remained. The bread remained. They ate. Food was left. Then the Prophet ﷺ told the household to eat and gift to others because people were hungry. This is barakah. Not hoarding. Not panic. Not “close the door, there may not be enough.” The Prophetic way turns a small pot into a community table.

Again, at the home of Abū Ṭalḥah and Umm Sulaym رضي الله عنهما, a few barley loaves became food for seventy or eighty men by the blessing Allah placed through His Messenger ﷺ.

Food is not only calories. Food can carry mercy. Food can carry duʿā. Food can carry family love. Food can carry health. Food can carry the Sunnah. Food can carry barakah.

This is why the believer does not throw food carelessly. This is why the believer feeds with dignity. This is why the believer says Bismillah. This is why the believer shares.

A table without remembrance may be full but empty. A table with Allah may be simple but alive.

My dear brothers and sisters,

There is the report of Umm Mālik رضي الله عنها. She used to send clarified butter to the Prophet ﷺ in a small skin. Later, when her children asked for something to eat with their bread, she would find clarified butter in that same skin. It kept providing until she squeezed it. When she told the Prophet ﷺ, he said that had she left it, it would have continued.

SubḥānAllah.

Sometimes the lesson is not only that Allah gives. The lesson is also: do not over-handle the gift. Do not squeeze every blessing to death. Do not turn every mercy into anxiety. Do not keep checking the root of every provision until gratitude disappears. Some blessings continue because the heart is content. Some blessings shrink when the hand becomes restless.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Zamzam is another sign.

Sayyiduna Abū Dharr رضي الله عنه stayed in Makkah for many days with no food except Zamzam. He told the Prophet ﷺ that he did not feel hunger. The Prophet ﷺ said it is blessed water and that it serves as food. Water became nourishment. The ordinary became extraordinary.

But only by Allah. And rain too is in Allah’s hand.

During drought, Sayyiduna ʿUmar رضي الله عنه asked Allah for rain through the duʿā of al-ʿAbbās ibn ʿAbd al-Muṭṭalib رضي الله عنه, the uncle of the Prophet ﷺ. They asked Allah. Al-ʿAbbās supplicated. Rain came.

This teaches us that the duʿā of the righteous matters. But it also teaches us where the righteous turn. They do not call people to themselves. They call people to Allah.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The Prophet ﷺ also told us of a man whose garden was watered by a cloud. A voice was heard commanding the cloud to water his garden. When the man was asked what he did with his produce, he explained that he gave one-third in charity, used one-third for his family, and returned one-third into the garden.

This is one of the most important narrations for our age. Because it joins spirituality with stewardship.

Charity. Family responsibility. Reinvestment. Not waste. Not greed. Not fake piety. Not neglect.

A cloud was commanded toward a garden whose owner understood balance.

This is barakah.

A field can become worship. A budget can become worship. A farm can become worship. A school garden can become worship. A kitchen can become worship. A business can become worship. But only when it is arranged around Allah.

My dear brothers and sisters,

After the Prophets, after the Companions, there are also reports from the pious: the Tābiʿūn, the Ahl al-Bayt, and the awliyāʾ. Here we must speak with care. The Qur’an is foundation. The ṣaḥīḥ Sunnah is foundation. Reports of the pious are not equal to Qur’an and ṣaḥīḥ hadith. Some are strong. Some are acceptable as historical reports. Some are weak. Some are devotional. Some may be exaggerated. So we do not build creed on every story.

But we also do not become so dry that we deny that Allah honours whom He wills. The karāmah of a wali is not the power of the wali.

It is the generosity of Allah. The wali does not own the unseen. The wali does not control the world. The wali is not a second lord. The wali is a servant. And the greatest karāmah is not flying in the air. The greatest karāmah is istiqāmah. To remain upright. To remain humble.

To obey Allah when no one is watching. To give when the ego wants to keep. To forgive when revenge is easy. To pray when the heart is tired. To serve without needing to be seen.

My dear brothers and sisters,

It is reported about Abū Muslim al-Khawlānī رحمه الله, one of the great ascetic Tābiʿūn, that his household had no flour. He received a dirham, gave it to a beggar, and returned with a sack filled outwardly with dust or sawdust. When his wife opened it, she found fine flour. She baked from it. When he returned and saw what had happened, he wept. Reports about him also mention answered duʿā for rain and Allah making difficult water-crossings easy for him and his companions.

Why did he weep? Because the people of Allah do not become proud when Allah gives. They become smaller before Him. A miracle that increases pride is a punishment in disguise. A blessing that increases humility is a mercy.

It is also reported about Muḥammad ibn al-Munkadir رحمه الله that while travelling with others, someone desired fresh cheese. Ibn al-Munkadir directed them to ask Allah, for Allah is able. They supplicated and found fresh cheese. Then someone wished for honey, and again they were directed toward Allah. Honey was found, and they ate.

Notice the teaching. He did not say: ask me. He said: ask Allah. This is the sign of a true servant. The false guide gathers hearts around himself. The true guide returns hearts to Allah.

It is also reported about Ḥabīb al-ʿAjamī رحمه الله that during famine he bought food and distributed it to the poor. When those who sold the food came seeking payment, small bags he had placed beneath his head were found filled with dirhams, and the amounts matched what was owed.

Again, the pattern is not magic. The pattern is giving. Charity opens doors that fear keeps closed. The nafs says: if I give, I will have less. Allah says: give, and I will replace. The nafs says: protect yourself by withholding. Allah teaches: protect yourself by taqwā.

My dear brothers and sisters,

There are also reports in the devotional literature of the Ahl al-Bayt about Imam ʿAlī ibn al-Ḥusayn, Zayn al-ʿĀbidīn رحمه الله, the great-grandson of Rasoolullah ﷺ. One report tells of drought in Makkah and rain coming after his supplication at the Kaʿbah. The same passage also tells of a hidden servant connected to his household whose duʿā for rain was answered, and who feared being known by people. These are manāqib reports, not the same rank as ṣaḥīḥ hadith, but the moral is beautiful: Allah may answer the duʿā of a heart unknown to the crowd.

This is why we must not worship fame. The person whose duʿā opens a door may not be on the poster. The servant loved by Allah may be sweeping the floor. The wali may be hidden in the kitchen. The accepted one may be the one no one invites to the front. The mother making duʿā before Fajr. The teacher crying for her students. The orphan saying Alḥamdulillah with a broken heart. The old man in the corner of the masjid. The quiet donor who never writes his name. The child whose “Āmīn” is cleaner than all our speeches.

My dear brothers and sisters,

What are all these stories teaching us? They are not teaching us to abandon means.

Maryam shook the palm. Mūsā struck the rock. The Prophet ﷺ organised people in groups. The farmer moved the water through his garden.

The bird goes out in the morning hungry and returns full; it does not sit in the nest and call laziness tawakkul. Rasoolullah ﷺ taught that if people relied on Allah with true reliance, Allah would provide for them as He provides for birds: they go out empty and return full. Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī grades this report ḥasan.

So work. Plan. Plant. Teach. Cook. Save. Build. Study. Organise. Repair. Take medicine. Dig the well. Write the proposal. Prepare the lesson. Open the shop. Hold the child’s hand.

But do not let the means become your god.

That is the disease. The believer uses means with the body and trusts Allah with the heart. The believer plans without panic. The believer gives without fear. The believer works without arrogance. The believer receives without forgetting. The believer loses without despairing.

Because the believer knows:

وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ

Allah provides from where the servant does not expect.

وَمَن يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُۥٓ

Whoever relies upon Allah, He is sufficient for him. Sūrat aṭ-Ṭalāq 65:3.

My dear brothers and sisters, We need to teach this in our homes.

Do not let children grow up thinking that provision comes only from salary. Let them see work. But also let them see duʿā. Let them see planning. But also let them see ṣadaqah. Let them see the shopping list. But also let them see Bismillah. Let them see food being cooked. But also let them see food being shared. Let them see that when guests come, the believer does not panic as if Allah has disappeared. Let them hear:

Allah will put barakah. Not as a slogan. As a living truth.

We need to teach this in our schools. A school is not built only by buildings, fees, timetables, and policies. Those things matter. But a school without barakah becomes noisy and hollow. A school with barakah may be simple, but children feel safe.

Teachers speak with mercy. Food is not wasted. Water is respected. The weak are protected. Truth is honoured. Beauty is cultivated. Goodness is practised. The children learn that the world is not dead matter. They learn that creation is alive with the command of Allah. They learn that rain is not only weather. Food is not only supply. Water is not only resource. A tree is not only shade. A garden is not only land. Everything is an āyah when the heart is awake.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Scarcity is not only having little. Scarcity is a way of seeing. A person can have much and still live in scarcity.

Always afraid. Always comparing. Always withholding. Always calculating. Always thinking: not enough.

Not enough money. Not enough time. Not enough people. Not enough recognition. Not enough control.

And a person can have little, but the heart is spacious. Because the heart knows Allah.

This does not mean poverty is romantic.

Hunger is hard. Debt is hard. Drought is hard. Unemployment is hard. Illness is hard.

The Prophet ﷺ cared about people’s hunger.

He fed them. He prayed for rain. He gave. He organised. He did not tell the hungry to be quiet and call that spirituality.

So we must not use tawakkul to excuse injustice. We must not use barakah to underpay people. We must not use patience to silence the oppressed.

We must not use “Allah will provide” to avoid our own duty.

No.

The believer feeds. The believer pays fairly. The believer serves. The believer shares. The believer gives water. The believer plants trees. The believer repairs the broken system.

And after doing all of that, the believer still knows: Allah is the Provider.

My dear brothers and sisters,

I believe one of the great spiritual illnesses of our time is that we have become impressed by means and unimpressed by Allah. We are impressed by wealth. Impressed by numbers. Impressed by buildings. Impressed by titles. Impressed by technology. Impressed by branding. Impressed by whoever looks powerful.

But the Qur’an keeps taking us back to the rock.

To the miḥrāb. To the palm tree. To the cloud. To the small pot. To the handful of dates. To the spring under the feet of a grieving mother. To the hidden servant. To the bird leaving hungry.

So the heart can learn again:

Allah is not absent. Allah is not distant. Allah is not waiting behind the world after the means have finished their work. The means are working only because Allah is sustaining them.

At every moment.

The fire burns because Allah permits. The water flows because Allah permits. The seed splits because Allah permits. The womb carries because Allah permits. The heart beats because Allah permits. The hand gives because Allah permits. The tongue says Alḥamdulillah because Allah permits.

So when you see abundance, say Alḥamdulillah. When you see little, say Yā Rabb put barakah. When the door opens, enter with humility. When the door closes, wait with adab. When the pot is small, say Bismillah. When the crowd is large, say Allah is enough. When the means are weak, do not despair. When the means are strong, do not become arrogant.

The means are small. Allah is great.

The cup is small. The ocean of Allah’s generosity is not small.

The hand is small. The giving of Allah is not small.

The budget is small. The command of Allah is not small.

The servant is small. The Lord is al-Kabīr.

My dear brothers and sisters,

This is the heart of barakah: To take the lawful means. To avoid sinful means. To give from what Allah gave . To ask Allah before, during, and after. To see Allah in the gift. To thank Allah when it comes. To remain with Allah if it is delayed. To never think that the visible quantity is the final truth.

Because Allah provides:

بِغَيْرِ حِسَابٍ

Without measure. Without being trapped by our arithmetic. Without being limited by our fear. Without needing our permission. Without needing our explanation.

أَقُولُ قَوْلِي هَذَا، وَأَسْتَغْفِرُ اللهَ لِي وَلَكُمْ، فَاسْتَغْفِرُوهُ، إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ.

Second Khutbah

الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ، وَالصَّلَاةُ وَالسَّلَامُ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

My dear brothers and sisters,

If there is one thing I want us to carry from this khutbah, it is this: Do not be tied to the smallness of the means. Use the means. Respect the means. Purify the means.

But do not be imprisoned by the means.

Allah is the Lord of the means. The rock does not decide. The cloud does not decide. The account does not decide. The market does not decide. The people do not decide.

Allah decides.

And when Allah places barakah in something, the small becomes spacious. A few loaves feed many. A little water becomes enough. A hidden duʿā brings rain. A garden becomes a place of charity. A simple home becomes full of light. A tired teacher becomes a means of guidance. A small school becomes a place where truth, beauty, and goodness are planted. A wounded heart becomes a door to Allah.

So ask Allah for barakah. Ask Him in your food. Ask Him in your family. Ask Him in your work. Ask Him in your time. Ask Him in your children. Ask Him in your school. Ask Him in your income. Ask Him in your knowledge. Ask Him in your water. Ask Him in your land. Ask Him in your worship.

And then live in a way that invites barakah.

Leave ḥarām. Leave cheating. Leave waste. Leave arrogance. Leave showing off. Leave cruelty. Leave panic.

Give charity. Honour parents. Feed people. Share water. Teach children gratitude. Keep promises. Pay workers properly. Make duʿā before decisions.

Say Bismillah before beginning. Say Alḥamdulillah after receiving. Say Astaghfirullah when you fall short. Say Hasbiyallāh when you are afraid.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The world trains us to say: how much do we have? The Qur’an trains us to ask: who is our Lord?

The world says: count what is in your hand. The Qur’an says: remember the One who opens the hand.

The world says: there is not enough.

Maryam says:

هُوَ مِنْ عِندِ ٱللَّهِ

It is from Allah.

May Allah make us people who see His signs. May Allah place barakah in our homes, our children, our food, our water, our schools, our masājid, our communities, our earnings, our time, and our worship. May Allah protect us from the arrogance of means and the laziness that pretends to be tawakkul. May Allah make us people of lawful effort and living trust. May Allah feed the hungry, give water to the thirsty, relieve the indebted, heal the sick, protect the oppressed, guide our children, forgive our parents, and make our tables places of gratitude and generosity.

اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّا نَسْأَلُكَ رِزْقًا طَيِّبًا وَاسِعًا مُبَارَكًا فِيهِ.

O Allah, grant us pure, spacious, blessed provision.

اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لَنَا فِيمَا رَزَقْتَنَا.

O Allah, place barakah in what You have provided us.

اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنَا مِنَ الشَّاكِرِينَ.

O Allah, make us from the grateful.

رَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً، وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً، وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ.

وَصَلَّى اللهُ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

وَآخِرُ دَعْوَانَا أَنِ الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ.

Wednesday, June 10, 2026

Allah Accepts Only What Is Pure

 السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

إِنَّ الْحَمْدَ لِلَّهِ، نَحْمَدُهُ، وَنَسْتَعِينُهُ، وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ، وَنَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا، وَمِنْ سَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا. مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ، وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ.

وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ سَيِّدَنَا مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ.

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ وَبَارِكْ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَأَصْحَابِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

أَمَّا بَعْدُ:

My dear brothers and sisters,

There is a sentence that sounds practical.

People say it in offices. They say it in politics. They say it in community work. They say it in families.

Sometimes even religious people say it without saying it directly.

“The goal is good, so the method is acceptable.”

Or in its harder form:

“The end justifies the means.”


This sentence is not from the Qur’an. It is not from the Sunnah. It is not from taqwā.

Islam does not teach us that a good destination can purify a dirty road. Islam teaches something much deeper, much cleaner, and much more demanding:

The intention must be pure. The action must be lawful. The method must be truthful. The manner must carry iḥsān. The heart must remain patient. The result must be left to Allah.

This is the path.


Pure intention. Right action. Clean means. Beautiful conduct. Steady patience. Tawakkul. Acceptance of Allah’s decree.


My dear brothers and sisters,

Allah Most High says:

وَمَا أُمِرُوا إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُوا اللَّهَ مُخْلِصِينَ لَهُ الدِّينَ

“They were commanded only to worship Allah, devoting the religion sincerely to Him...”

Sūrat al-Bayyinah 98:5


So the first question is not: Did it work?

The first question is: Was it for Allah?


Not for image. Not for control. Not for revenge. Not for fear of people. Not for institutional pride. Not for the pleasure of winning. Not for numbers.

For Allah.

This is why Rasoolullah ﷺ said:

إِنَّمَا الأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّاتِ

“Actions are only by intentions.”

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1


But we must be careful here. Some people use this hadith badly. They say, “My intention was good,” as if good intention makes every action pure.

No.

A good intention is necessary, but it is not enough.

If a person lies and says, “I intended good,” the lie remains a lie. If a person humiliates someone and says, “I wanted to teach them,” the humiliation remains ugly. If a person takes what is not theirs and says, “I will use it for charity,” the theft remains theft. If a person breaks trust and says, “It was for a noble cause,” the betrayal remains betrayal.

Islam does not worship intention alone.

Allah says:

فَمَنْ كَانَ يَرْجُو لِقَاءَ رَبِّهِ فَلْيَعْمَلْ عَمَلًا صَالِحًا


“Whoever hopes to meet his Lord, let him do righteous work...”

Sūrat al-Kahf 18:110

Look at the words. Not merely work.

Righteous work.


Not merely active. Not merely passionate. Not merely successful. Not merely influential.

Righteous.

The action itself must be sound. The method itself must be pleasing to Allah.


My dear brothers and sisters,

Allah makes this matter very clear:

وَتَعَاوَنُوا عَلَى الْبِرِّ وَالتَّقْوَىٰ

وَلَا تَعَاوَنُوا عَلَى الْإِثْمِ وَالْعُدْوَانِ

“Help one another in righteousness and taqwā, and do not help one another in sin and aggression.”

Sūrat al-Mā’idah 5:2


This āyah is enough to break the false idea that the end justifies the means. Allah did not say: help one another in sin if the final project looks useful. Allah did not say: cooperate in aggression if your side is religious. Allah did not say: use doubtful methods if your public slogan is good.

He separated the two roads.

Birr and taqwā are one road. Sin and aggression are another road.

Do not mix them.

The road matters.

In fact, sometimes the road reveals the real goal. A person may say, “I am defending truth,” but if he defends it with lies, then what is he truly serving? A person may say, “I am building community,” but if he builds it with fear, backbiting, pressure, and injustice, then what kind of community is being built?

Truth cannot be carried by falsehood.

Allah says:

وَلَا تَلْبِسُوا الْحَقَّ بِالْبَاطِلِ

“Do not mix truth with falsehood...”

Sūrat al-Baqarah 2:42


This is a command for scholars. For teachers. For parents. For leaders. For activists. For writers.

For every Muslim.

Do not mix truth with falsehood.


Do not use one true sentence to hide ten false ones. Or ten true sentences to hide one false one. Do not quote selectively to win. Do not hide what should be said because it weakens your side. Do not twist religion until it serves the ego.


Truth has its own dignity.


My dear brothers and sisters,

One of the most difficult tests of justice is not how we treat those we love. It is how we treat those we dislike.

Allah says:

وَلَا يَجْرِمَنَّكُمْ شَنَآنُ قَوْمٍ عَلَىٰ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا

اعْدِلُوا هُوَ أَقْرَبُ لِلتَّقْوَىٰ


“Do not let hatred of a people lead you to be unjust. Be just; that is nearer to taqwā.”

Sūrat al-Mā’idah 5:8


This verse should be written over every debate. Over every court. Over every committee meeting. Over every staff room. Over every family conflict. Over every WhatsApp group where people become brave with other people’s honour.

Do not let hatred make you unjust.

Not even hatred. Not even anger. Not even injury. Not even the feeling that the other person is wrong.

The Qur’an does not say, “They wronged you, so now you may wrong them.”

It says: be just. That is nearer to taqwā.

This is Islam.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Rasoolullah ﷺ gave us a principle that should make the heart understand:

إِنَّ اللَّهَ طَيِّبٌ لَا يَقْبَلُ إِلَّا طَيِّبًا

“Allah is Pure, and He accepts only what is pure.”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1015


Allah is Ṭayyib.

So the deed must be ṭayyib. The source must be ṭayyib. The words must be ṭayyib. The process must be ṭayyib.

We cannot offer Allah a result that was produced through dishonesty and expect it to become beautiful at the end.

A poisoned seed does not become pure because the tree gives shade.

Rasoolullah ﷺ also said:

لَا تُقْبَلُ صَدَقَةٌ مِنْ غُلُولٍ

“No charity is accepted from misappropriated wealth.”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 224a


Think about this.

Charity is beautiful. Feeding the poor is beautiful. Helping people is beautiful.

But if the money is stolen, wrongly taken, misused, or gained through betrayal, then the charity is not accepted.

So Islam does not say: steal and give.

Islam says: purify the source, then give.

This is why the believer must ask not only, “What am I doing?” but also, “How did I reach this? Who was hurt? Was trust broken? Was anyone’s right taken? Did I use Allah’s name to cover something Allah does not love?”


My dear brothers and sisters,

There is also a hadith that balances every emotional claim of “I meant well.”

Rasoolullah ﷺ said:

مَنْ عَمِلَ عَمَلًا لَيْسَ عَلَيْهِ أَمْرُنَا فَهُوَ رَدٌّ

“Whoever does an act that is not in accordance with our matter, it is rejected.”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1718b


So the deed needs two lights.

The light of sincerity. And the light of correctness.

Without sincerity, the deed becomes hollow. Without correctness, the deed becomes rejected.

This is why the scholars often say that an action must be sincere for Allah and in accordance with the Sunnah of Rasoolullah ﷺ.

Not one without the other.


My dear brothers and sisters,

Allah does not only command justice. He commands iḥsān.

إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَأْمُرُ بِالْعَدْلِ وَالْإِحْسَانِ

“Indeed, Allah commands justice and iḥsān...”

Sūrat an-Naḥl 16:90


Justice is the foundation. Iḥsān is the beauty and excellence.

Justice says: do not take what is not yours. Iḥsān says: give even when you could keep.

Justice says: do not lie. Iḥsān says: speak truth with mercy.

Justice says: do not oppress. Iḥsān says: lift the burden from another person.

Justice says: fulfil the right. Iḥsān says: fulfil the right with a clean heart.


This is the beauty of Islam.

It does not allow us to say, “At least I was technically correct,” while our manner was harsh, arrogant, and cold.

Even when Islam permits a difficult action, it still commands beauty in the method.


Rasoolullah ﷺ said:

إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَتَبَ الإِحْسَانَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ

“Allah has prescribed iḥsān in everything.”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1955a


In everything.


Not only in prayer. Not only in charity. Not only in Qur’an recitation.

In teaching. In correcting. In disagreeing. In leading. In writing. In parenting. In administration. In discipline. In decision-making. In speech.

If even slaughter must be done with care and mercy, then how can we justify cruelty in the name of religion, education, leadership, or reform?


My dear brothers and sisters,


Daʿwah itself has rules. Calling to Allah is one of the most noble works, but even daʿwah cannot be done with ugliness. 

Allah says:

ادْعُ إِلَىٰ سَبِيلِ رَبِّكَ بِالْحِكْمَةِ

وَالْمَوْعِظَةِ الْحَسَنَةِ

وَجَادِلْهُم بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ


“Call to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good counsel, and debate them in the way that is best.”

Sūrat an-Naḥl 16:125


Wisdom. Good counsel. The better way of disagreement.

Not humiliation. Not mockery. Not manipulation. Not anger dressed as religious courage.

Sometimes we think harshness is strength. But the Qur’an calls us to something higher.

Allah even says:

وَلَا تَسُبُّوا الَّذِينَ يَدْعُونَ مِن دُونِ اللَّهِ

“Do not insult those whom they call upon besides Allah...”

Sūrat al-Anʿām 6:108


SubḥānAllah.


Defending tawḥīd is one of the highest aims. Yet Allah forbids a method that creates greater harm.

So even a sacred goal must be carried with discipline.

This is a lesson many of us need.

The tongue is small, but the fires it lights can be large.

Allah says:

وَقُل لِّعِبَادِي يَقُولُوا الَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ

“Tell My servants to say that which is best.”

Sūrat al-Isrā’ 17:53

Not merely that which is true.  That which is best.

Because Shayṭān enters between people through speech. He takes one careless word and grows it into distance. He takes one proud reply and grows it into hatred. He takes one public insult and grows it into years of bitterness.

The believer must guard the tongue.

My dear brothers and sisters,

There is another verse that gathers the whole path:

فَاسْتَقِمْ كَمَا أُمِرْتَ وَلَا تَطْغَوْا

“So remain upright as you have been commanded, and do not transgress.”

Sūrat Hūd 11:112


Not just remain firm. Remain firm as commanded.

There is firmness that is obedience. And there is firmness that is only ego.

There is courage that is for Allah. And there is courage that is only anger.

There is leadership that serves. And there is leadership that controls.

There is discipline that reforms. And there is discipline that crushes.


So Allah says: remain upright as you have been commanded. And then immediately: do not transgress.

This means zeal is not enough. Passion is not enough. Even religious energy must stay inside the limits of Allah.


My dear brothers and sisters,


Sometimes people take sinful shortcuts because they are impatient.

They want the result now. They want the victory now. They want the apology now. They want the institution fixed now. They want the child changed now. They want the community reformed now.

But the Qur’an trains us differently.

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اصْبِرُوا وَصَابِرُوا وَرَابِطُوا وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ


“O you who believe, be patient, persevere, remain firm, and be mindful of Allah...”

Sūrat Āl ʿImrān 3:200


Patience protects the purity of the means.

When patience leaves, we begin to justify. When taqwā weakens, we begin to negotiate with sin. When the result becomes too important, we begin to treat obedience as optional.

That is dangerous. The result is not our god.

Allah is our Lord.


My dear brothers and sisters,


Rasoolullah ﷺ taught us a balanced way:

احْرِصْ عَلَى مَا يَنْفَعُكَ وَاسْتَعِنْ بِاللَّهِ وَلَا تَعْجِزْ

“Be keen for what benefits you, seek Allah’s help, and do not give up...”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2664


So Islam is not passivity.

It does not say: do nothing. It does not say: be careless. It does not say: leave planning. It does not say: refuse effort.

Be keen for what benefits you.

But then: Seek Allah’s help.

And when the outcome comes, the Sunnah teaches us to say:

قَدَرُ اللَّهِ وَمَا شَاءَ فَعَلَ

“Allah decreed, and whatever He willed, He did.”


This is the balance.

Effort without arrogance. Planning without panic. Action without sin. Surrender without laziness.


My dear brothers and sisters,


Allah taught Rasoolullah ﷺ a leadership model full of mercy:

فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِّنَ اللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمْ

“By a mercy from Allah, you were gentle with them...”

Sūrat Āl ʿImrān 3:159


Then Allah says that if he had been harsh and hard-hearted, people would have scattered from around him.


This is a verse that should make everyone more careful.

A parent can be right and still drive the child away. A teacher can be right and still wound the student.

An imam can be right and still close a heart.

A manager can be right and still break trust.

A spouse can be right and still destroy peace.


Truth needs mercy.

The verse continues:

فَاعْفُ عَنْهُمْ

وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ

وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الْأَمْرِ

فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ


Pardon them.

Seek forgiveness for them.

Consult them.

Then when you have decided, trust Allah.


This is not weak leadership.vThis is Prophetic leadership.


Mercy. Forgiveness. Consultation. Resolve. Tawakkul.


My dear brothers and sisters,


There is great freedom in tawakkul.

Allah says:

وَمَن يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُ مَخْرَجًا

وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ


“Whoever has taqwā of Allah, He will make for him a way out, and provide for him from where he does not expect.”

Sūrat aṭ-Ṭalāq 65:2–3


And Allah says:

وَمَن يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُ

“Whoever relies upon Allah, He is sufficient for him.”

Sūrat aṭ-Ṭalāq 65:3


This means we do not need to break Allah’s limits to secure our future.

Allah does not need our lies. Allah does not need our injustice. Allah does not need our manipulation. Allah does not need our harshness.

He is sufficient.

The believer takes the lawful means, then trusts the Lord of the means.


My dear brothers and sisters,

Sometimes the clean path looks slower. Sometimes the truthful path looks costly. Sometimes justice feels like it will weaken our side. Sometimes mercy feels like it will delay the result.

But we must remember:

وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

“Allah knows, and you do not know.”

Sūrat al-Baqarah 2:216


Perhaps the outcome we wanted would have harmed our souls. Perhaps the delay is protection. Perhaps the closed door is mercy. Perhaps Allah is saving us from a victory that would have made us arrogant. Perhaps Allah is teaching us that obedience is the real success.

The believer’s life is not empty when the visible result is delayed.


Rasoolullah ﷺ said:

عَجَبًا لِأَمْرِ الْمُؤْمِنِ إِنَّ أَمْرَهُ كُلَّهُ خَيْرٌ

“How wondrous is the affair of the believer: all of his affair is good.”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2999


If ease comes, he is grateful.

If hardship comes, he is patient.


But this applies to the believer who walks with Allah. It does not make sin good. It does not make oppression good. It does not make betrayal good.


It means that when the believer obeys Allah and then receives Allah’s decree, every state can become worship.


My dear brothers and sisters,


This principle must enter our homes.

Do not say: “I shouted because I wanted to teach.” Teach with dignity.

Do not say: “I embarrassed the child because it will make him better.” Correction without mercy may damage what it claims to repair.

Do not say: “I hid the truth because it was better for the family.” A house built on concealment will one day tremble.

Do not say: “I spoke harshly because religion must be defended.” The Sunnah does not need our bad manners.

Do not say: “I took a shortcut because the project was important.” No project is more important than obedience to Allah.

Do not say: “Everyone does it.” You will not stand before Allah with everyone.

You will stand with your own heart. Your own tongue. Your own hands. Your own record.


My dear brothers and sisters,


This principle must enter our schools and institutions too.

If we want truth, we must use truthful means. If we want beauty, we must use beautiful means. If we want goodness, we must use good means.

A school cannot build character through fear . A community cannot build trust through secrecy. A leader cannot build unity through humiliation. A parent cannot build love through control. A teacher cannot build sincerity through public shame.

The means are part of the education.

Children do not only learn from what we announce. They learn from how we speak.

How we disagree. How we apologise. How we make decisions. How we treat the weak. How we handle power. How we respond when we are wrong.

This is how character is formed.

Not in slogans only. In methods.


My dear brothers and sisters,


The Islamic answer is clear. The end does not justify the means. The means must already be pleasing to Allah. The path itself is part of the worship.

So before any action, ask:

Is my intention for Allah? Is this action lawful? Is this method truthful? Is anyone’s right being taken? Is there injustice hidden under a good name? Is my tongue carrying mercy? Is my anger crossing Allah’s limits? Have I consulted wisely? Have I made the effort Allah allows? Am I ready to accept the result Allah chooses?

This is a cleaner way to live.

Harder, yes. Slower, sometimes. Less dramatic, often.

But cleaner.

And the believer should fear dirty success more than visible failure. Because success is not merely getting what we wanted. Success is meeting Allah with a sincere heart and clean hands.


May Allah purify our intentions. May Allah purify our actions. May Allah purify our means. May Allah place justice and iḥsān in our homes, our schools, our communities, and our hearts. May Allah protect us from using His religion to serve our ego. May Allah make us people of truth, mercy, patience, and tawakkul.

آمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِينَ


أَقُولُ قَوْلِي هَذَا، وَأَسْتَغْفِرُ اللهَ لِي وَلَكُمْ، فَاسْتَغْفِرُوهُ، إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ.

Sunday, May 24, 2026

Qurbani: The Sacrifice That Teaches Nearness

السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

إِنَّ الْحَمْدَ لِلَّهِ، نَحْمَدُهُ، وَنَسْتَعِينُهُ، وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ، وَنَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا، وَمِنْ سَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا. مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ، وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ.

وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ سَيِّدَنَا مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ.

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ وَبَارِكْ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَأَصْحَابِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

أَمَّا بَعْدُ:

My dear brothers and sisters,

There are acts of worship that we explain too quickly.

We name them. We classify them. We debate their conditions. We ask whether they are wājib or Sunnah. We ask whether one animal covers one person or one household.

And all of that has its place.

The law matters. Precision matters. The fiqh matters.

But some acts of worship are not only rules. They are schools. Qurbani is one of those schools.

It is a school of nearness. A school of gratitude. A school of restraint. A school of feeding. A school of family. A school of surrender.

It teaches the hand to give. It teaches the tongue to remember. It teaches the body to wait. It teaches the home to be generous. It teaches the ego that it is not the master.

Allah Most High gives the matter in one short command:

فَصَلِّ لِرَبِّكَ وَانْحَرْ

“So pray to your Lord and sacrifice.”

Look at the order.

Prayer first. Sacrifice after.
And both for your Lord.

Not for culture. Not for pressure. Not for display. Not for family pride. Not for the annual theatre of who bought what. Not for the market of religious self-importance.

For Allah.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Words carry light when we understand them.

The more precise Arabic word for the Eid sacrifice is uḍḥiyahأُضْحِيَة.

It is connected to ḍuḥā, the bright morning, because the sacrifice belongs to the day of Eid after the prayer, in the light of the morning. That itself is a lesson. This worship is not hidden in darkness. It is done after ṣalāh, with the Name of Allah, with food moving from one hand to another: to family, to neighbours, to the needy, to the forgotten.

Then there is qurbānī.

This is the word many of us grew up with. It is a Persian-Urdu word, but it comes from the Arabic root of qurb — nearness. So qurbani is not merely slaughter.

It is an attempt at nearness.

Nearness to Allah through obedience. Nearness to the poor through feeding. Nearness to the Sunnah through following. Nearness to Ibrahim عليه السلام through surrender. Nearness to Rasoolullah ﷺ through love.

Then there is hadyالهَدْي.

Hady is the sacrificial offering connected especially to Hajj and ‘Umrah. It is not exactly the same as the Eid uḍḥiyah. Hady carries the meaning of an offering sent toward the sacred rites.

So these three words teach us three shades of meaning.

Uḍḥiyah reminds us of the Eid morning. Qurbani reminds us of nearness. Hady reminds us of the sacred offering connected to Hajj.

Words matter. When a community loses the meanings of its words, it may keep the action but lose the light inside the action.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Allah says in Sūrat al-Ḥajj that He appointed for every community a sacrificial rite so that they may mention the Name of Allah over what He has provided them.

So the animal is not the centre.

The Name of Allah is the centre.

The provision is from Allah. The life is from Allah. The permission is from Allah. The gratitude returns to Allah.

Then Allah says:

فَكُلُوا مِنْهَا وَأَطْعِمُوا

“Eat from it and feed.”

This is the balance of Islam.

Eat and feed. Remember and share. Worship and serve. Be grateful and be generous.

Some people turn religion into private feeling only. Some turn religion into public display only.

The Qur’an refuses both.

Eat. Feed. Remember Allah. Be grateful.

Then Allah gives the deepest correction:

لَنْ يَنَالَ اللَّهَ لُحُومُهَا وَلَا دِمَاؤُهَا وَلَٰكِنْ يَنَالُهُ التَّقْوَىٰ مِنْكُمْ

“Their meat will not reach Allah, nor will their blood, but what reaches Him is your taqwa.”

This verse should be written over every Eid market, every butcher’s shop, every family discussion, and every WhatsApp group where qurbani becomes status.

The meat does not reach Allah. The blood does not reach Allah. The price does not reach Allah. The instagram post does not reach Allah. The family comparison does not reach Allah.

Your taqwa reaches Him.

This does not make the sacrifice small. It saves the sacrifice from being misunderstood. The act matters. But the act must carry servitude to Allah.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Rasoolullah ﷺ sacrificed. Sayyiduna Anas ibn Mālik رضي الله عنه narrated that the Prophet ﷺ sacrificed two rams, horned and light-coloured, and that he mentioned the Name of Allah, said the takbīr, and slaughtered them with his own blessed hand.

In our South Asian language, many say dumba or domba. The Prophetic wording is kabsh — a ram. Two rams are kabshayn.

Why did the Prophet ﷺ sacrifice two?

Not because every household must slaughter two. That would be to misunderstand the Sunnah. One was for his blessed household. One was for his Ummah.

In the beautiful du‘ā narrated in the reports, he said:

بِسْمِ اللهِ، اللَّهُمَّ تَقَبَّلْ مِنْ مُحَمَّدٍ، وَآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ، وَمِنْ أُمَّةِ مُحَمَّدٍ

“In the Name of Allah. O Allah, accept from Muhammad, the family of Muhammad, and the Ummah of Muhammad.”

This is love.

Rasoolullah ﷺ did not forget to include his Ummah at the moment of sacrifice. This is Shafaat (شفاعة). Joining us in his devotion. His worship was not individualism. His nearness included others. His qurbani carried mercy.

The Prophet ﷺ was teaching us that the head of a home worships with the family in mind, and the leader of an Ummah worships with the people in mind.

But the ordinary household does not need two rams to imitate him. The lesson is not luxury. The lesson is mercy.

Sayyiduna Abu Ayyub al-Ansari رضي الله عنه was asked how qurbani was done in the time of Rasoolullah ﷺ. He said that a man would sacrifice one sheep for himself and the people of his household; they would eat from it and feed others.

That is the balance.

Do not make the Sunnah small. Do not make it burdensome either.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The Sunnah order of Eid is clear.

Pray first. Then slaughter.

The Prophet ﷺ said that whoever slaughtered before the Eid prayer should slaughter another in its place. This teaches us that good intention alone is not enough.

The first act of Eid al-Adha is not meat. The first act is ṣalāh.

Then comes sacrifice. Then comes eating. Then comes feeding.

Even appetite is trained.

On Eid al-Fitr, we eat before prayer to show that Ramadan has ended and fasting that day is not allowed. But on Eid al-Adha, the day begins with worship, and then the table opens.

The body learns: I do not eat first. I worship first.

This is character training.

This is how Islam educates the whole human being: the mind, the heart, the hand, the tongue, the stomach, the family, and the community.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Qurbani is not an isolated event. It is the crown of the first ten days of Dhul Hijjah.

Allah swears by the ten nights:

وَلَيَالٍ عَشْرٍ

“By the ten nights.”

Many of the early scholars understood these to refer to the first ten nights of Dhul Hijjah.

These are not ordinary days. In these days, ordinary deeds become weighty.

Prayer becomes weightier. Charity becomes weightier. Dhikr becomes weightier. Fasting becomes weightier. Service becomes weightier. Repentance becomes weightier. Kindness becomes weightier.

So do not reduce Dhul Hijjah to the animal.

The animal is the public sign at the end. But the ten days are the private training before the sign. Before the qurbani of the animal, there must be the qurbani of the ego. Before the meat is divided, the heart must be softened.

Before the knife is lifted, the tongue must say:

الله أكبر
لا إله إلا الله
الحمد لله

The house should hear takbīr. The children should hear takbīr. The kitchen should hear takbīr. The car should hear takbīr. The road should hear takbīr. The heart should hear takbīr. The ego should hear takbīr until it finally learns that Allah is greater.

Greater than wealth. Greater than appetite. Greater than pride. Greater than family pressure. Greater than the desire to be seen.

My dear brothers and sisters,

For the one who intends to offer the sacrifice, there is also a quieter Sunnah: when Dhul Hijjah begins, such a person holds back from cutting hair and nails until the sacrifice is offered.

This is a small act, but it carries meaning.

The person is not in ihrām. He is not in Makkah. She is not standing on Arafah. They may be at home, at work, in school, in the ordinary routine of life.

But let even your hair and nails be in solidarity with those in the Hajj. Islam teaches through great acts and small acts. Through salah and sacrifice. Through fasting and feeding. Through words and silence. Through giving and waiting.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The fast of Yawm Arafah for the one not performing Hajj is one of the great gifts of these days. The Prophet ﷺ taught that fasting the Day of Arafah expiates the sins of the previous year and the coming year.

One day. Two years of mercy.

But do not make fasting mechanical.

Fasting is not a coin dropped into a machine of reward. Fasting is hunger that teaches need. It is restraint that teaches mastery. It is silence in the body so the soul can hear.

The one who fasts Arafah should come out of it softer.

More repentant. More grateful. More merciful. More aware that Allah’s mercy is wider than our small record of deeds.

My dear brothers and sisters,

Now we come to the question that returns every year. Is qurbani required from every adult, or is one qurbani enough for a household?

This question must be answered with knowledge and adab. There are two defensible fiqh models.

The first is the Hanafi model.

In the Hanafi school, qurbani is wājib upon each eligible person: Muslim, mature, sane, resident, and financially able — the one who owns nisab-level surplus wealth beyond basic needs and debts.

Under this view, the obligation is individual.

So if the husband has nisab and the wife does not, the husband gives one qurbani. If both husband and wife have nisab, both have their own duty. If an adult son living with his parents has nisab, he has his own qurbani duty. If an adult daughter has wealth above nisab, she has her own qurbani duty.

In this view, the kitchen does not decide the obligation. One kitchen, two kitchens, same table, different table — these may describe family life, but they do not decide the legal duty in Hanafi fiqh.

The legal question is: who is individually eligible?

One sheep or goat counts as one person’s qurbani. A cow or camel may be shared in up to seven valid shares. A father, husband, son, or family member may pay for another person, but the intention should be clear: this is the qurbani of that person. So when people say, “Every adult must give qurbani,” the more careful wording is: every eligible adult who meets the conditions. A careless sentence can burden the poor. A precise sentence protects the mercy of the Shari‘ah.

The second model is the majority model.

In the well-known positions of the Maliki, Shafi‘i, and Hanbali schools, udhiyah is a strongly emphasised Sunnah, not an individual wājib upon every eligible adult in the same way.

Under this view, one udhiyah may cover a genuine household when the intention includes them.

This is supported by the report of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari رضي الله عنه, who described that in the time of Rasoolullah ﷺ, a man would sacrifice a sheep for himself and the people of his household; they would eat from it and feed others.

This view is also supported by the Prophet’s own du‘ā over his sacrifice: asking Allah to accept from Muhammad ﷺ, the family of Muhammad ﷺ, and the Ummah of Muhammad ﷺ.

So the majority approach is not laziness. It is not neglect. It is not trying to avoid worship. It is a valid fiqh model with its evidences.

But what is a household?

This is where people must be wise.

A household is not only a surname. It is not only one building. It is not only people who gather on Eid. A household has signs: shared maintenance, shared meals, shared responsibility, shared domestic life, shared care, and shared intention.

This is why people often speak about a separate kitchen. A separate kitchen is not a universal classical legal rule.

The stove is not the Shari‘ah. But the stove can be a sign.

A separate kitchen may point to separate expenses, separate family management, separate meals, and separate household responsibility.

So under the Hanafi view, the kitchen test should not decide the matter. Count eligible adults.

Under the majority view, the kitchen may help reveal whether there is one genuine household or two separate households.

If two married brothers live in the same building but each has his own budget, his own cooking, his own expenses, and his own family management, then under the majority view it is better to treat them as two households. Each household should offer its own udhiyah if able.

Under the Hanafi view, count the eligible adults individually.

If a father supports his wife, children, and dependent parents in one home, and they live as one domestic unit, then under the majority approach, one udhiyah can cover the household Sunnah if intended for them.

Under the Hanafi approach, each adult who independently owns nisab has a separate duty.

If a wife has her own wealth above nisab, then in Hanafi fiqh she has her own qurbani duty. Under the majority view, the household udhiyah can cover the household Sunnah if she is included in the intention, though she may offer her own if she is able and wishes to draw nearer to Allah.

If adult earning children remain genuinely part of the same domestic household, the majority view can allow one udhiyah for the household. But if they run independent expenses and their own household life, separate udhiyah is more fitting. Under the Hanafi view, each adult child with nisab gives separately.

My dear brothers and sisters,

This is not a place for fighting.

This is a place for taqwa.

To follow the Hanafi school is not harshness. To follow the majority position is not laziness.

Both have evidence. Both have scholars. Both have principles. Truth requires knowledge. Beauty requires adab. Goodness requires mercy.

The Shari‘ah was not sent to make worship ugly. The Sunnah was not sent to make families bitter. Qurbani was not given so that Eid becomes an audit of who paid and who did not.

I believe our communities must stop turning Sunnah into pressure, pressure into culture, culture into competition, and competition into silent cruelty toward those who cannot afford to keep up.

Look at the wisdom of the Khulafa Rashidin.

The Eid order remained: prayer first, khutbah after. But it is reported about Sayyiduna Abu Bakr and Sayyiduna Umar رضي الله عنهما that they were careful not to let people confuse Sunnah with fard.

This is leadership.

Sometimes a leader teaches by doing. Sometimes a leader teaches by preventing confusion. They understood people. They knew public religious acts can be misunderstood when done by those in authority.

So they guarded the Ummah.

This is a lesson for parents, teachers, imams, community leaders, and heads of households.

Do not use your religious seriousness to crush people. Do not use your wealth to shame people. Do not use your knowledge to win arguments. Use it to bring people nearer to Allah.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The sacrifice of Eid is tied to Ibrahim عليه السلام.

Why?

Because Ibrahim عليه السلام obeyed when obedience tore through the heart.

Allah did not need the blood. Allah did not need the meat. Allah wanted surrender.

Ibrahim عليه السلام placed Allah above what was most beloved. Isma‘il عليه السلام responded with submission. A family became a sign for the whole Ummah.

Most of us are not being asked to place our dearest human love on an altar. But we are being asked a smaller version of the same question:

Can you give up something? Can you obey before you fully understand? Can you place Allah above appetite?
Above wealth? Above pride? Above display? Above the need to be seen?

Can you let your worship feed someone else? Can you remember that the meat does not reach Allah? Can you remember that the taqwa does?

My dear brothers and sisters,

Let qurbani teach our children. Let them see that Islam is not only rules memorised, but character lived. Let them see adults give without showing off. Let them see food shared with dignity. Let them see scholars respected even when they differ. Let them see family decisions made with calmness. Let them see the poor honoured, not treated as an afterthought. Let them see that Eid is not only clothes and food, but worship, service, and gratitude.

A child who sees qurbani properly learns many things at once.

The child learns that Allah provides. The child learns that wealth must move. The child learns that meat is not wasted. The child learns that animals are not toys. The child learns that sacrifice is not cruelty, but worship under the Name and permission of Allah. The child learns that the poor have a right to joy. The child learns that the family table should have room for others.

This is how Islam builds the whole child: truth in the mind, beauty in the soul, goodness in the hand.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The simple order is this:

Enter the ten days with seriousness. If you intend to offer the sacrifice, hold back from cutting hair and nails until it is done. Increase good deeds. Fast if you can, especially Arafah if you are not in Hajj. Fill the house with takbīr, taḥmīd, and tahlīl.

On Eid, pray first. Do not rush the sacrifice before the prayer. Slaughter in the Name of Allah.
Say Allahu Akbar.
Eat from it. Feed others.
Do not turn it into display. Do not turn it into burden. Do not turn it into a meat festival without remembrance. Do not turn it into a legal argument without beauty.

For a Hanafi household, the safer and school-consistent answer is that each nisab-owning eligible adult gives a separate qurbani or a separate valid share.

For those following the majority position, one udhiyah for a genuine household is valid, and separate financially independent family units should each offer their own if able.

For mixed families and mixed communities, speak with gentleness.

Follow your madhhab consistently. Respect those who follow another valid view. And for those who can afford it without harm, giving one share per eligible adult is a cautious route that satisfies all views — but let it be done with humility, not superiority.

Because Allah does not need our meat.

Allah wants our taqwa.

أَقُولُ قَوْلِي هَذَا، وَأَسْتَغْفِرُ اللهَ لِي وَلَكُمْ، فَاسْتَغْفِرُوهُ، إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ. 

Second Khutbah

الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ، وَالصَّلَاةُ وَالسَّلَامُ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

My dear brothers and sisters,

The animal is sacrificed once.

But the ego must be sacrificed again and again.

The qurbani of the tongue is to sacrifice harsh speech. The qurbani of the ego is to sacrifice the need to win every argument. The qurbani of wealth is to give for Allah without display. The qurbani of the home is to bring mercy where there was tension. The qurbani of the community is to feed the needy and preserve brotherhood.

Sacrifice arrogance. Sacrifice stinginess. Sacrifice envy. Sacrifice anger that burns the home. Sacrifice the habit of judging others before judging yourself. Sacrifice the need to appear religious while forgetting to be kind.

When we buy the animal, let it be with halal earnings. When we make the intention, let it be for Allah alone. When we divide the meat, let the poor have a share. When we speak to our families, let mercy have a share. When we teach our children, let meaning have a share.

Do not reduce qurbani to meat distribution.

Make it a lesson in life.

Let the home learn gratitude. Let the child learn generosity. Let the wealthy learn humility. Let the poor be honoured. Let the community learn adab. Let the heart learn nearness.

The Qur’an says:

لَنْ يَنَالَ اللَّهَ لُحُومُهَا وَلَا دِمَاؤُهَا وَلَٰكِنْ يَنَالُهُ التَّقْوَىٰ مِنْكُمْ

“Their meat will not reach Allah, nor will their blood, but what reaches Him is your taqwa.”

That is the heart of the matter. Everything else is arrangement.

May Allah make these days days of repentance, generosity, remembrance, and nearness.

May Allah accept our prayer, our sacrifice, our fasting, our feeding, and our restraint.

May Allah reward those who offer qurbani.

May Allah reward those who wish to offer but cannot afford it.

May Allah protect the poor from shame and the wealthy from pride.

May Allah place love between husbands and wives, parents and children, brothers and sisters.

May Allah guide us to follow the scholars with adab and to worship Him with sincerity.

May Allah save us from religious vanity and give us the quiet taqwa that reaches Him.

اللَّهُمَّ تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ.
اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنَا مِنَ الْمُتَّقِينَ.
اللَّهُمَّ أَصْلِحْ بُيُوتَنَا، وَأَصْلِحْ قُلُوبَنَا، وَأَصْلِحْ أُمَّتَنَا.
اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنَا صِدْقَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، وَتَسْلِيمَ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، وَرَحْمَةَ مُحَمَّدٍ ﷺ.
اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ قُرْبَانَنَا قُرْبًا إِلَيْكَ، وَاجْعَلْ أَعْمَالَنَا خَالِصَةً لِوَجْهِكَ الْكَرِيمِ.

رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا، إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ، وَتُبْ عَلَيْنَا، إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ.

وَصَلَّى اللهُ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ، وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.

آمِين.