Sunday, October 22, 2017

Thinking Well of Allah

  (حُسْنُ الظَّنِّ بِاللَّهِ): 

When Faith Guides the Heart to Riḍā

Ḥusnu al-ẓanni bi-Llāh.

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

Bismi Allāhi al-Raḥmāni al-Raḥīm.

In the name of Allah, the All Merciful, the Always-Merciful.

My dear readers,

السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Al-salāmu ʿalaykum wa-raḥmatu Allāhi wa-barakātuhu.

May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be upon you.

الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ، نَسْتَعِينُهُ وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ، وَنَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا وَسَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا. مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللَّهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ، وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ. وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ.

Al-ḥamdu li-Llāh, nastaʿīnuhu wa-nastaghfiruhu, wa-naʿūdhu bi-Llāhi min shurūri anfusinā wa-sayyiʾāti aʿmālinā. Man yahdihi Allāhu fa-lā muḍilla lahu, wa-man yuḍlil fa-lā hādiya lahu. Wa-ashhadu an lā ilāha illā Allāh, wa-ashhadu anna Muḥammadan ʿabduhu wa-rasūluhu.

All praise is for Allah. We seek His help and forgiveness, and we seek refuge in Allah from the evils within ourselves and from our bad deeds. Whomever Allah guides, no one can lead astray; whomever He leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that there is no deity except Allah, and I bear witness that Muḥammad is His servant and messenger.

See the endnote in the first post.

When Pain Tests What the Heart Believes

Thinking well of Allah is easy when the road opens exactly as we hoped. Its truth is tested when a door remains closed, when a prayer appears unanswered, when health fails, when a plan breaks, or when loss enters the house without explaining itself.

At such moments, the question is not whether pain will visit the heart. Even the Prophets grieved. The deeper question is what the heart will say about its Lord while it is hurting.

After the shock at Uḥud, the Qurʾān described a group who were:

يَظُنُّونَ بِاللَّهِ غَيْرَ الْحَقِّ ظَنَّ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ

Yaẓunnūna bi-Llāhi ghayra al-ḥaqqi ẓanna al-jāhiliyyah.

“Thinking about Allah what was untrue—the thought of ignorance.”

Āl ʿImrān 3:154

The verse concerns people preoccupied with themselves who entertained a pagan thought about Allah amid their unhappiness with what Divine Wisdom had apportioned. Such unmerited thoughts afflict the heart and can relegate a person to perpetual antagonism against his or her own state of being: the inward insistence that Allah could—and should—have arranged matters better whenever they touch us personally.

Their error was not merely sadness. It was a false judgment about Allah, His promise, and His governance. This distinction matters. 

A wounded heart may cry to Allah without accusing Him. Yaʿqūb عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ said:

إِنَّمَا أَشْكُو بَثِّي وَحُزْنِي إِلَى اللَّهِ

Innamā ashkū baththī wa-ḥuznī ilā Allāh.

“I pour out my anguish and sorrow only to Allah.”

Yūsuf 12:86

Grief is not necessarily sūʾ al-ẓann—thinking badly of Allah. Tears are not an objection to divine wisdom. The danger begins when pain hardens into an inward accusation: Allah has dealt unjustly with me; He has forgotten me; nothing good can remain; my preferred outcome would have been wiser than His decree.

The Qurʾān and the Prophetic tradition frequently command us to think well of other people. Abū Hurayrah رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ narrated:

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنْ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ، عَنِ الْأَعْرَجِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ـ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «إِيَّاكُمْ وَالظَّنَّ، فَإِنَّ الظَّنَّ أَكْذَبُ الْحَدِيثِ، وَلَا تَحَسَّسُوا، وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا، وَلَا تَنَاجَشُوا، وَلَا تَحَاسَدُوا، وَلَا تَبَاغَضُوا، وَلَا تَدَابَرُوا، وَكُونُوا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ إِخْوَانًا».

Ḥaddathanā ʿAbdu Allāhi ibn Yūsuf, akhbaranā Mālik, ʿan Abī al-Zinād, ʿan al-Aʿraj, ʿan Abī Hurayrah—raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhu—anna Rasūla Allāhi ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallama qāla: “Iyyākum wa-l-ẓann, fa-inna al-ẓanna akdhabu al-ḥadīth; wa-lā taḥassasū, wa-lā tajassasū, wa-lā tanājashū, wa-lā taḥāsadū, wa-lā tabāghaḍū, wa-lā tadābarū, wa-kūnū ʿibāda Allāhi ikhwānan.”

“Beware of negative thinking and suspicion of others, for it is the worst of falsehood. Do not look for others’ faults, spy on one another, inflate prices against one another, envy one another, hate one another, or turn away from one another. O servants of Allah, be brothers.”

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6066

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ categorically warned us: إِيَّاكُمْ وَالظَّنَّ، فَإِنَّ الظَّنَّ أَكْذَبُ الْحَدِيثِ (iyyākum wa-l-ẓann, fa-inna l-ẓanna akdhabu l-ḥadīth)—“Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the falsest of speech.” If thinking ill of another person is so grave, what can we say of thinking ill of Allah? A believer shudders at the idea, yet may still fall into it without recognizing what is happening within the heart.

The scholar Muḥammad ibn Abī Bakr, better known as Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah, writes in Zād al-Maʿād:

فَأَكْثَرُ الْخَلْقِ، بَلْ كُلُّهُمْ إِلَّا مَنْ شَاءَ اللَّهُ، يَظُنُّونَ بِاللَّهِ غَيْرَ الْحَقِّ ظَنَّ السَّوْءِ؛ فَإِنَّ غَالِبَ بَنِي آدَمَ يَعْتَقِدُ أَنَّهُ مَبْخُوسُ الْحَقِّ، نَاقِصُ الْحَظِّ، وَأَنَّهُ يَسْتَحِقُّ فَوْقَ مَا أَعْطَاهُ اللَّهُ، وَلِسَانُ حَالِهِ يَقُولُ: ظَلَمَنِي رَبِّي، وَمَنَعَنِي مَا أَسْتَحِقُّهُ، وَنَفْسُهُ تَشْهَدُ عَلَيْهِ بِذَلِكَ، وَهُوَ بِلِسَانِهِ يُنْكِرُهُ، وَلَا يَتَجَاسَرُ عَلَى التَّصْرِيحِ بِهِ. وَمَنْ فَتَّشَ نَفْسَهُ وَتَغَلْغَلَ فِي مَعْرِفَةِ دَفَائِنِهَا وَطَوَايَاهَا ... وَلَوْ فَتَّشْتَ مَنْ فَتَّشْتَهُ، لَرَأَيْتَ عِنْدَهُ تَعَتُّبًا عَلَى الْقَدَرِ وَمَلَامَةً لَهُ، وَاقْتِرَاحًا عَلَيْهِ خِلَافَ مَا جَرَى بِهِ، وَأَنَّهُ يَنْبَغِي أَنْ يَكُونَ كَذَا وَكَذَا، فَمُسْتَقِلٌّ وَمُسْتَكْثِرٌ، وَفَتِّشْ نَفْسَكَ: هَلْ أَنْتَ سَالِمٌ مِنْ ذَلِكَ؟

فَإِنْ تَنْجُ مِنْهَا تَنْجُ مِنْ ذِي عَظِيمَةٍوَإِلَّا فَإِنِّي لَا إِخَالُكَ نَاجِيًا

Fa-aktharu al-khalqi, bal kulluhum illā man shāʾa Allāh, yaẓunnūna bi-Llāhi ghayra al-ḥaqqi ẓanna al-sawʾ; fa-inna ghāliba banī Ādama yaʿtaqidu annahu mabkhūsu al-ḥaqqi, nāqiṣu al-ḥaẓẓi, wa-annahu yastaḥiqqu fawqa mā aʿṭāhu Allāh, wa-lisānu ḥālihi yaqūlu: ẓalamanī rabbī, wa-manaʿanī mā astaḥiqquhu, wa-nafsuhu tashhadu ʿalayhi bi-dhālik, wa-huwa bi-lisānihi yunkiruhu, wa-lā yatajasaru ʿalā al-taṣrīḥi bihi. Wa-man fattasha nafsahu wa-taghallaghala fī maʿrifati dafāʾinihā wa-ṭawāyāhā … wa-law fattashta man fattashtahu, la-raʾayta ʿindahu taʿattuban ʿalā al-qadari wa-malāmatan lahu, wa-iqtirāḥan ʿalayhi khilāfa mā jarā bihi, wa-annahu yanbaghī an yakūna kadhā wa-kadhā, fa-mustaqillun wa-mustakthirun, wa-fattish nafsaka: hal anta sālimun min dhālik? Fa-in tanju minhā tanju min dhī ʿaẓīmatin; wa-illā fa-innī lā ikhāluka nājiyan.

“Most people—in fact, everybody except those whom Allah saves—assume the worst with regard to Allah, unjustly. Most people believe that they have been deprived of what they rightfully deserve, suffer from bad luck, or deserve more than Allah has provided for them.

“It is as if they are saying, ‘My Lord has wronged me and deprived me of what I deserve.’ Their souls bear witness to this while their tongues state otherwise, denying what lies within the heart.

“… Examine your own self: are you free from this? If you are, you have been protected from something truly terrible. Otherwise, I do not think that you have been saved.”

Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah, Zād al-Maʿād, in his discussion of lessons from Uḥud.

Good Opinion Is Worship—and It Shapes Action

Thinking badly of Allah is a terrible danger to avoid. Its opposite belongs to the beauty and soundness of worship. Abū Hurayrah رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ narrated that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:

حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ مُوسَى، أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، أَخْبَرَنَا صَدَقَةُ بْنُ مُوسَى، أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ وَاسِعٍ، عَنْ سُمَيْرِ بْنِ نَهَارٍ الْعَبْدِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «إِنَّ حُسْنَ الظَّنِّ بِاللَّهِ مِنْ حُسْنِ عِبَادَةِ اللَّهِ».

Ḥaddathanā Yaḥyā ibn Mūsā, akhbaranā Abū Dāwūd, akhbaranā Ṣadaqatu ibn Mūsā, akhbaranā Muḥammadu ibn Wāsiʿ, ʿan Sumayri ibn Nahārin al-ʿAbdī, ʿan Abī Hurayrah, qāla: qāla Rasūlu Allāhi ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam: “Inna ḥusna al-ẓanni bi-Llāhi min ḥusni ʿibādati Allāh.”

“Indeed, having good thoughts concerning Allah is part of the perfection of the worship of Allah.”

Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 3604f; graded ḥasan in the cited edition.

This should be the state of the heart throughout our time on earth, and it is vital that we meet the next world in this state. Three days before his death, the Prophet ﷺ emphatically advised:

حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ يَحْيَى، أَخْبَرَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ زَكَرِيَّاءَ، عَنِ الْأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَبْلَ وَفَاتِهِ بِثَلَاثٍ يَقُولُ: «لَا يَمُوتَنَّ أَحَدُكُمْ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يُحْسِنُ بِاللَّهِ الظَّنَّ».

Ḥaddathanā Yaḥyā ibn Yaḥyā, akhbaranā Yaḥyā ibn Zakariyyāʾ, ʿan al-Aʿmash, ʿan Abī Sufyān, ʿan Jābir, qāla: samiʿtu al-Nabiyya ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallama qabla wafātihi bi-thalāthin yaqūlu: “Lā yamūtanna aḥadukum illā wa-huwa yuḥsinu bi-Llāhi al-ẓann.”

Jābir رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ reported: “I heard Allah’s Messenger ﷺ say three days before his death: ‘None of you should approach death except in a state of assuming the best about Allah.’”

Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2877a

Another narration helps us understand this counsel. Abū Hurayrah رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said:

حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي، حَدَّثَنَا الْأَعْمَشُ، سَمِعْتُ أَبَا صَالِحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ـ قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «يَقُولُ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى: أَنَا عِنْدَ ظَنِّ عَبْدِي بِي، وَأَنَا مَعَهُ إِذَا ذَكَرَنِي؛ فَإِنْ ذَكَرَنِي فِي نَفْسِهِ ذَكَرْتُهُ فِي نَفْسِي، وَإِنْ ذَكَرَنِي فِي مَلَإٍ ذَكَرْتُهُ فِي مَلَإٍ خَيْرٍ مِنْهُمْ، وَإِنْ تَقَرَّبَ إِلَيَّ بِشِبْرٍ تَقَرَّبْتُ إِلَيْهِ ذِرَاعًا، وَإِنْ تَقَرَّبَ إِلَيَّ ذِرَاعًا تَقَرَّبْتُ إِلَيْهِ بَاعًا، وَإِنْ أَتَانِي يَمْشِي أَتَيْتُهُ هَرْوَلَةً».

Ḥaddathanā ʿUmaru ibn Ḥafṣ, ḥaddathanā abī, ḥaddathanā al-Aʿmash, samiʿtu Abā Ṣāliḥ, ʿan Abī Hurayrah—raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhu—qāla: qāla al-Nabiyyu ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam: “Yaqūlu Allāhu taʿālā: Anā ʿinda ẓanni ʿabdī bī, wa-anā maʿahu idhā dhakaranī; fa-in dhakaranī fī nafsihi dhakartuhu fī nafsī, wa-in dhakaranī fī malaʾin dhakartuhu fī malaʾin khayrin minhum; wa-in taqarraba ilayya bi-shibrin taqarrabtu ilayhi dhirāʿan, wa-in taqarraba ilayya dhirāʿan taqarrabtu ilayhi bāʿan, wa-in atānī yamshī ataytuhu harwalah.”

“Allah says: ‘I am as My servant thinks I am, and I am with him when he remembers Me. If he remembers Me within himself, I remember him within Myself. If he remembers Me among a group of people, I remember him among a group better than they. If he comes one span nearer to Me, I come one cubit nearer to him. If he comes one cubit nearer to Me, I come the distance of two outstretched arms nearer to him. If he comes to Me walking, I come to him running.’”

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7405

We must think well of our Lord and seek proximity to Him. What we expect or fear can shape how we approach Him and how we act; this is not a religious “law of attraction,” nor a promise that an imagined worldly outcome must occur. Good opinion of Allah is not a cognitive exercise alone. It has a direct effect on deeds. Al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī said:

إِنَّ الْمُؤْمِنَ أَحْسَنَ الظَّنَّ بِرَبِّهِ فَأَحْسَنَ الْعَمَلَ، وَإِنَّ الْفَاجِرَ أَسَاءَ الظَّنَّ بِرَبِّهِ فَأَسَاءَ الْعَمَلَ.

Inna al-muʾmina aḥsana al-ẓanna bi-rabbihi fa-aḥsana al-ʿamal, wa-inna al-fājira asāʾa al-ẓanna bi-rabbihi fa-asāʾa al-ʿamal.

“The believer assumes the best about his Lord and therefore does the best deeds. The sinner assumes the worst about his Lord and therefore does evil deeds.”

Reported from al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī. The early wording in Muṣannaf Ibn Abī Shaybah reads “the hypocrite”; the later wording quoted by Ibn al-Qayyim reads “the sinner,” as preserved here.

ʿAbd Allāh ibn Masʿūd رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ said:

وَالَّذِي لَا إِلَٰهَ غَيْرُهُ، مَا أُعْطِيَ عَبْدٌ مُؤْمِنٌ شَيْئًا خَيْرًا مِنْ حُسْنِ الظَّنِّ بِاللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ، وَالَّذِي لَا إِلَٰهَ غَيْرُهُ، لَا يُحْسِنُ عَبْدٌ بِاللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ الظَّنَّ إِلَّا أَعْطَاهُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ ظَنَّهُ؛ ذَلِكَ بِأَنَّ الْخَيْرَ فِي يَدِهِ.

Wa-alladhī lā ilāha ghayruhu, mā uʿṭiya ʿabdun muʾminun shayʾan khayran min ḥusni al-ẓanni bi-Llāhi ʿazza wa-jall; wa-alladhī lā ilāha ghayruhu, lā yuḥsinu ʿabdun bi-Llāhi ʿazza wa-jalla al-ẓanna illā aʿṭāhu Allāhu ʿazza wa-jalla ẓannahu; dhālika bi-anna al-khayra fī yadihi.

“By the One besides Whom none is worthy of worship, the believer is not given anything better than good expectations of Allah. By the One besides Whom none is worthy of worship, no servant expects good of Allah except that Allah gives him what he expected, since all good is in His Hand.”

Reported by Ibn Abī al-Dunyā in Ḥusn al-Ẓann bi-Llāh.

What It Means to Think Well of Allah

In the authentic ḥadīth qudsī, Allah says: أَنَا عِنْدَ ظَنِّ عَبْدِي بِي، وَأَنَا مَعَهُ إِذَا ذَكَرَنِيAnā ʿinda ẓanni ʿabdī bī, wa-anā maʿahu idhā dhakaranī—“I am as My servant thinks of Me, and I am with him when he remembers Me” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7405; Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2675a).

To think well of Allah is to expect His mercy when we repent, His acceptance when we return sincerely, His help when we obey, His wise response when we call upon Him, and His faithful fulfillment of every promise He has made. The Prophet ﷺ therefore warned: لَا يَمُوتَنَّ أَحَدُكُمْ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يُحْسِنُ بِاللَّهِ الظَّنَّLā yamūtanna aḥadukum illā wa-huwa yuḥsinu bi-Llāhi al-ẓann—“Let none of you die except while thinking well of Allah” (Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2877a).

But ḥusn al-ẓann is not the belief that Allah must give us the precise worldly outcome we have imagined. It is not a religious form of wishful thinking, and it is not a promise that every closed door will reopen in this life. It is confidence in Allah, not confidence in our own forecast.

Humility Before the Perfection of Allah

The Qurʾān gives the reason for this humility:

وَعَسَىٰ أَنْ تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكُمْ ۖ وَعَسَىٰ أَنْ تُحِبُّوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

Wa-ʿasā an takrahū shayʾan wa-huwa khayrun lakum, wa-ʿasā an tuḥibbū shayʾan wa-huwa sharrun lakum; wa-Allāhu yaʿlamu wa-antum lā taʿlamūn.

“You may dislike something although it is good for you, and you may love something although it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know.”

Al-Baqarah 2:216

Thinking well of Allah begins where our claim to complete knowledge ends.

Knowing this, I have had to examine myself. I have sometimes wished that my circumstances were different. I have often looked at the condition of the world and thought that it could be better. At the same time, having read the verse above, I believe that Allah knows what is best. These are the two feelings I must reconcile.

If I dislike something, perhaps I do not yet understand it. I should still try to understand it to the best of my ability. Sayyidinā ʿAlī عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ said:

النَّاسُ أَعْدَاءُ مَا جَهِلُوا.

Al-nāsu aʿdāʾu mā jahilū.

“People often oppose what they do not know.”

Nahj al-Balāghah, maxim 172 in one common numbering.

There is, however, a limit. How can an ordinary mortal understand every secret of what happens around us when the Qurʾānic story of Mūsā and al-Khiḍr shows that even a Prophet of Mūsā’s stature could not at first fathom certain events? If, despite honest effort, I still cannot understand something that conflicts with my expectations, I must place my trust in Allah’s wisdom and knowledge, and ask Him to guide me.

If I truly believe in Allah’s perfection, how can I refuse His decisions simply because I cannot see their full meaning? We often say سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ (subḥāna Allāh). It declares that Allah is free of every weakness, defect, and shortcoming. Once we believe this, we accept His decisions without placing our limited judgment above His. This does not forbid seeking knowledge or asking to understand. The angels themselves began with سُبْحَانَكَ when acknowledging the limit of their knowledge:

قَالُوا سُبْحَانَكَ لَا عِلْمَ لَنَا إِلَّا مَا عَلَّمْتَنَا ۖ إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْعَلِيمُ الْحَكِيمُ

Qālū subḥānaka lā ʿilma lanā illā mā ʿallamtanā; innaka anta al-ʿalīmu al-ḥakīm.

“They replied: ‘Limitless art Thou in Thy glory! No knowledge have we save that which Thou hast imparted unto us. Verily, Thou alone art all-knowing, truly wise.’”

Al-Baqarah 2:32

Likewise, Ibrāhīm’s عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ request concerning the birds was not اِعْتِرَاضًا (iʿtirāḍan—an objection) or doubt, but طَلَبُ الاسْتِبْصَارِ وَاسْتِزَادَةُ الْيَقِينِ (ṭalabu al-istibṣāri wa-istizādatu al-yaqīn—seeking direct insight and an increase in certainty), so that his heart might find tranquility. The angels’ question—

أَتَجْعَلُ فِيهَا مَنْ يُفْسِدُ فِيهَا وَيَسْفِكُ الدِّمَاءَ؟

A-tajʿalu fīhā man yufsidu fīhā wa-yasfiku al-dimāʾ?

“Will You place in it one who will spread corruption there and shed blood?”

Al-Baqarah 2:30

—was not اِعْتِرَاضًا (iʿtirāḍan—objection) or إِنْكَارًا (inkāran—disapproval), but اِسْتِفْهَامُ اسْتِعْلَامٍ وَاسْتِكْشَافٍ لِلْحِكْمَةِ (istifhāmu istiʿlāmin wa-istikshāfin li-l-ḥikmah—a respectful inquiry seeking understanding of divine wisdom). In the traditional understanding followed here, their own words rule out objection: they affirmed Allah’s perfection, acknowledged their limited knowledge, and testified that He alone is the All-Knowing, the Truly Wise.

One of the best-known remembrances of Allah’s perfection is described in this hadith:

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ سُمَيٍّ، عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ـ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «مَنْ قَالَ: سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، فِي يَوْمٍ مِائَةَ مَرَّةٍ، حُطَّتْ خَطَايَاهُ، وَإِنْ كَانَتْ مِثْلَ زَبَدِ الْبَحْرِ».

Ḥaddathanā ʿAbdu Allāhi ibn Maslamah, ʿan Mālik, ʿan Sumayy, ʿan Abī Ṣāliḥ, ʿan Abī Hurayrah—raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhu—anna Rasūla Allāhi ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallama qāla: “Man qāla: Subḥāna Allāhi wa-bi-ḥamdihi, fī yawmin miʾata marratin, ḥuṭṭat khaṭāyāhu, wa-in kānat mithla zabadi al-baḥr.”

“Whoever says, ‘Subḥāna Allāhi wa-bi-ḥamdihi,’ one hundred times a day will be forgiven his sins, even if they are as much as the foam of the sea.”

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6405

سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ (subḥāna Allāh) declares the absence of every defect. When it is joined to وَبِحَمْدِهِ (wa-bi-ḥamdihi), it also declares that every praiseworthy quality belongs to Him. The hadith promises forgiveness for this remembrance. In my devotional reading, internalizing its meaning also helps treat the disease of doubting His decisions, allowing faith to rise toward the station of those who are well pleased.

When Faith Guides the Heart to Riḍā

There is a difference between knowing Allah’s hidden purpose and recognizing His decree. We are not given private access to the unseen. A feeling, a dream, an easy path, or a difficult path does not by itself prove what Allah loves. Before events unfold, we consult, choose, pray, work, and use the means He has permitted. Once an event has truly occurred, faith teaches us that it did not escape His knowledge or permission.

Allah says:

مَا أَصَابَ مِنْ مُصِيبَةٍ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِ اللَّهِ ۗ وَمَنْ يُؤْمِنْ بِاللَّهِ يَهْدِ قَلْبَهُ ۚ وَاللَّهُ بِكُلِّ شَيْءٍ عَلِيمٌ

Mā aṣāba min muṣībatin illā bi-idhni Allāh; wa-man yuʾmin bi-Llāhi yahdi qalbahu; wa-Allāhu bi-kulli shayʾin ʿalīm.

“No calamity befalls except by Allah’s permission. Whoever believes in Allah, He guides their heart. Allah has full knowledge of everything.”

Al-Taghābun 64:11

ʿAlqamah al-Nakhaʿī, a leading student in the school of ʿAbd Allāh ibn Masʿūd, explained the guided heart in this verse:

هُوَ الرَّجُلُ تُصِيبُهُ الْمُصِيبَةُ، فَيَعْلَمُ أَنَّهَا مِنْ عِنْدِ اللَّهِ، فَيُسَلِّمُ لَهَا وَيَرْضَىٰ.

Huwa al-rajulu tuṣībuhu al-muṣībatu, fa-yaʿlamu annahā min ʿindi Allāh, fa-yusallimu lahā wa-yarḍā.

“It is the person whom calamity strikes; he knows that it is from Allah, so he submits and becomes content.”

Tafsīr al-Ṭabarī on 64:11

The verse does not promise that faith will disclose the secret reason behind every wound. It promises something both humbler and stronger: Allah will guide the believer’s heart. The heart learns whom to trust when it does not understand. It knows that nothing lies outside His knowledge, that Allah wrongs no one, and that no patient endurance, trust, or faithful response will finally be wasted.

This guided heart is moving toward riḍā: contentment with Allah as Lord, confidence that His wisdom is flawless, and surrender to what He has permitted to occur—without calling evil good or abandoning the duties that remain. The Qurʾān repeatedly describes the completed relationship between Allah and His faithful servants with the words:

رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمْ وَرَضُوا عَنْهُ

Raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhum wa-raḍū ʿanhu.

“Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him.”

The exact expression occurs four times. It is said of the truthful on the Day of Judgment (5:119); of the first Muhājirūn and Anṣār and those who follow them beautifully (9:100); of believers in whose hearts Allah has inscribed faith and whom He has strengthened (58:22); and of those who believe, do righteous deeds, and stand in reverent awe of their Lord (98:7–8).

In Sūrat al-Mujādilah, the connection with the heart is especially clear:

أُولَٰئِكَ كَتَبَ فِي قُلُوبِهِمُ الْإِيمَانَ وَأَيَّدَهُمْ بِرُوحٍ مِنْهُ ... رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمْ وَرَضُوا عَنْهُ

Ulāʾika kataba fī qulūbihimu al-īmāna wa-ayyadahum bi-rūḥin minhu … raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhum wa-raḍū ʿanhu.

“Those are the ones in whose hearts He has inscribed faith and whom He has strengthened with a spirit from Him … Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him.”

Al-Mujādilah 58:22

The recurring expression places two pleasures side by side: the Lord’s pleasure in His servants and their pleasure with Him. In all four occurrences, the formula stands beside a description or promise of Paradise. This reminds us that riḍā is larger than a passing feeling of calm. Its perfection belongs to the final meeting, when every promise is fulfilled and no sorrow remains. Indeed, after mentioning the gardens and dwellings of Paradise, Allah says:

وَرِضْوَانٌ مِنَ اللَّهِ أَكْبَرُ

Wa-riḍwānun mina Allāhi akbar.

“But Allah’s good pleasure is greater.”

Al-Tawbah 9:72

And the tranquil soul is welcomed home:

يَا أَيَّتُهَا النَّفْسُ الْمُطْمَئِنَّةُ ۝ ارْجِعِي إِلَىٰ رَبِّكِ رَاضِيَةً مَرْضِيَّةً ۝ فَادْخُلِي فِي عِبَادِي ۝ وَادْخُلِي جَنَّتِي

Yā ayyatuhā al-nafsu al-muṭmaʾinnah. Irjiʿī ilā rabbiki rāḍiyatan marḍiyyah. Fa-dkhulī fī ʿibādī. Wa-dkhulī jannatī.

“O tranquil soul, return to your Lord, well pleased and well pleasing. Enter among My servants, and enter My Garden.”

Al-Fajr 89:27–30

The destination of the believing heart is not merely the gift it requested, but contentment with the Giver.

What Riḍā Does—and Does Not—Mean

An important distinction in the Islamic understanding of الْقَضَاءُ وَالْقَدَرُ (al-qaḍāʾ wa-l-qadar—divine decree and destiny) is the difference between:

الرِّضَا بِالْقَضَاءِ (al-riḍā bi-l-qaḍāʾ)—being content with Allah’s decree; and

الرِّضَا بِالْمَقْضِيِّ (al-riḍā bi-l-maqḍī)—being pleased with the particular thing that has been decreed.

The two are not identical. Classical scholars explicitly distinguished between الْقَضَاءُ—Allah’s decreeing—and الْمَقْضِيُّ—the painful or pleasant event that occurs. A person may trust Allah’s wisdom, justice, and knowledge while still finding the event itself deeply painful. Al-Qarāfī makes precisely this distinction, noting that experiencing pain from illness or calamity is not in itself dissatisfaction with Allah’s decree.

Al-Qarāfī, al-Furūq, distinction 262: the difference between contentment with the decree and not approving what is decreed.

This also helps us understand the Prophetic supplication:

وَأَسْأَلُكَ الرِّضَاءَ بَعْدَ الْقَضَاءِ.

Wa-asʾaluka al-riḍāʾa baʿda al-qaḍāʾ.

“And I ask You for contentment after the decree.”

Such رِضًا (riḍā) does not mean becoming emotionally indifferent, pretending that suffering does not hurt, or forcing oneself to call something painful pleasant. It means that beneath the pain there remains تَسْلِيمٌ لِلَّهِ (taslīmun li-Llāh—surrender to Allah): I do not understand everything that has happened, and I may deeply grieve what I have lost, but I do not accuse Allah of injustice. I entrust myself to His knowledge, mercy, and wisdom.

The clearest example is the Prophet ﷺ himself when his son Ibrāhīm died. He wept and said:

إِنَّ الْعَيْنَ تَدْمَعُ، وَالْقَلْبَ يَحْزَنُ، وَلَا نَقُولُ إِلَّا مَا يَرْضَىٰ رَبُّنَا، وَإِنَّا بِفِرَاقِكَ يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ لَمَحْزُونُونَ.

Inna al-ʿayna tadmaʿu, wa-l-qalba yaḥzanu, wa-lā naqūlu illā mā yarḍā rabbunā, wa-innā bi-firāqika yā Ibrāhīmu la-maḥzūnūn.

“The eye sheds tears, the heart grieves, and we say only what pleases our Lord. Indeed, at your separation, O Ibrāhīm, we are grieved.”

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1303

He then explicitly said that he was grieved by Ibrāhīm’s separation.

Riḍā does not mean emotional numbness. Yaʿqūb عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ grieved, the Prophet ﷺ wept, and believers may feel shock, fear, anger, or exhaustion. The spiritual work is not to pretend that pain is painless. It is to prevent pain from becoming a false judgment about Allah.

Thus الْحُزْنُ (al-ḥuzn—sadness) and الرِّضَا (al-riḍā—contented acceptance) can inhabit the same heart. One can grieve الْمَقْضِيَّ—what has happened—while accepting الْقَضَاءَ—that Allah, in His wisdom, permitted it to happen.

Faith does not require the absence of grief. It asks that grief not become an اِعْتِرَاضٌ عَلَى اللَّهِ (iʿtirāḍun ʿalā Allāh—an objection against Allah). Tears can coexist with trust; pain can coexist with surrender; and a broken heart can still be a heart at peace with its Lord.

Nor should riḍā be turned into a weapon against the afflicted. The heart may reach inward contentment with a painful occurrence gradually, by Allah’s help; it should not be demanded as an instant feeling. A person who is still struggling should be accompanied with mercy, not shamed for failing to feel immediate peace.

Riḍā also does not mean approving sin or injustice. Allah says:

وَلَا يَرْضَىٰ لِعِبَادِهِ الْكُفْرَ

Wa-lā yarḍā li-ʿibādihi al-kufr.

“He does not approve disbelief for His servants.”

Al-Zumar 39:7

Wrongdoing can occur within the created order while remaining something Allah has forbidden and does not love. We may accept that an injury has occurred within Allah’s decree while condemning the offender’s choice, protecting the vulnerable, seeking treatment, pursuing lawful justice, and trying to prevent the wrong from happening again. Submission to Allah is not submission to an oppressor.

Nor is riḍā passivity. Before a matter is settled, the believer prays, seeks counsel, takes precautions, and acts. After it unfolds, the believer continues to act where action remains possible, but refuses to put Allah Himself on trial. A useful summary is:

Before the outcome becomes known: ask, choose, and strive.

After the outcome becomes known: respond faithfully, and ask Allah for contentment with His decree.

Bowing Before the Just Judge

Saʿdī gives the spiritual posture of riḍā in two lines from Mawāʿiẓ, Qaṣīdah 6:

سَرِ قَبول بِبایَد نِهاد و گَردَنِ طَوعکِه هَرچِه حاکِمِ عادِل کُنَد نَه بیداد اَست

Sar-e qabūl bebāyad nehād o gardan-e ṭawʿ,Ke harche ḥākem-e ʿādel konad na bīdād ast.

One must bow the head in acceptance and bend the neck in willing obedience,for whatever the Just Judge ordains is no injustice.

Saʿdī, Mawāʿiẓ, Qaṣīdah 6, check my blog

The “Just Judge” here is Allah—not every ruler, employer, parent, spouse, or powerful person who appeals to destiny in order to escape responsibility. Allah declares:

إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَظْلِمُ مِثْقَالَ ذَرَّةٍ

Inna Allāha lā yaẓlimu mithqāla dharrah.

“Allah does not wrong anyone by even an atom’s weight.”

Al-Nisāʾ 4:40

We bow before Allah’s judgment precisely because His justice is unlike ours: nothing is hidden from Him, no future consequence escapes Him, no creature can pressure Him, and no selfish need can corrupt His decision.

I have explored the wider balance between decree and effort in Saʿdī’s poem in The Servant Who Becomes Free: Saʿdī on Rizq, Qadar, Human Effort, and the Limits of Control. Its central lesson belongs here too: act fully where action belongs to the servant, and surrender where sovereignty belongs to Allah.

An Athar of ʿAbd Allāh ibn Masʿūd

ʿAbd Allāh ibn Masʿūd رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ expressed the seriousness of faith in the decree with a severe image:

لَا يُؤْمِنُ الْعَبْدُ حَتَّى يُؤْمِنَ بِالْقَدَرِ، وَيَعْلَمَ أَنَّ مَا أَصَابَهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ لِيُخْطِئَهُ، وَمَا أَخْطَأَهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ لِيُصِيبَهُ؛ وَلَأَنْ أَعَضَّ عَلَىٰ جَمْرَةٍ حَتَّىٰ تَطْفَأَ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ أَنْ أَقُولَ لِأَمْرٍ قَضَاهُ اللَّهُ: لَيْتَهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ.

Lā yuʾminu al-ʿabdu ḥattā yuʾmina bi-l-qadar, wa-yaʿlama anna mā aṣābahu lam yakun li-yukhṭiʾahu, wa-mā akhṭaʾahu lam yakun li-yuṣībahu; wa-la-an aʿaḍḍa ʿalā jamratin ḥattā taṭfaʾa aḥabbu ilayya min an aqūla li-amrin qaḍāhu Allāhu: laytahu lam yakun.

“A servant does not truly believe until he believes in the decree and knows that what struck him could not have missed him, and what missed him could not have struck him. I would rather bite down on a burning coal until it went out than say of a matter Allah had decreed, ‘If only it had never happened.’”

Al-Bayhaqī, al-Qaḍāʾ wa-l-Qadar, no. 204; Shuʿab al-Īmān, no. 214. Al-Bayhaqī judged its chain sound. It is a sound mawqūf report—a statement of Ibn Masʿūd, not a saying of the Prophet ﷺ.

Ibn Masʿūd is not forbidding reflection, repentance, learning from mistakes, or lawful effort to repair harm. His objection is to prosecuting Allah’s settled decree in the court of “if only,” as though the servant possessed a wiser final authorship of reality. The statement is a severe spiritual warning, not a warrant to pass judgment on a distressed person’s faith.

What Hardship May Give—and What Ease May Conceal

Through supplication and faithful effort, we hope to approach the patience seen in Ayyūb عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ and Yaʿqūb عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ. A later report describes Ayyūb’s debilitating illness as lasting eighteen years—more than a decade—although the Qurʾān itself does not specify its duration. Yaʿqūb’s eyes turned white from grief over Yūsuf, conventionally understood as loss of sight. Their stories preserve the meaning behind the literary image that they “braved a smile”: not a sourced claim that they literally smiled, but an image of endurance. They remained turned toward Allah and did not let suffering become a negative judgment about Him. Ayyūb’s life has therefore become an archetype of patience and acceptance of the Lord’s decision.

Mawlānā Rūmī approaches another aspect of this state in the Mathnawī:

داد مَر فِرعَون را صَد مُلک و مالتا بِکَرد او دَعویِ عِزّ و جَلال

Dād mar Ferʿown rā ṣad molk o māl,Tā bekard ū daʿvī-ye ʿezz o jalāl.

God gave Pharaoh abundance of riches and wealth,so that he boasted that he was “Lord Supreme.”

دَر هَمِه عُمرَش نَدید او دَردِ سَرتا نَنالَد سویِ حَق آن بَدگُهَر

Dar hame ʿomrash nadīd ū dard-e sar,Tā nanālad sū-ye Ḥaqq ān bad-gohar.

In the whole of his life he suffered no headache,so that he never cried to God, wretch that he was.

داد او را جُملِه مُلکِ این جَهانحَق نَدادَش دَرد و رَنج و اَندَهان

Dād ū rā jomle molk-e īn jahān,Ḥaqq nadādash dard o ranj o andohān.

God granted him the absolute dominion of the world,but withheld from him pain and sorrow and cares.

دَرد آمَد بِهتَر اَز مُلکِ جَهانتا بِخوانی مَر خُدا را دَر نَهان

Dard āmad behtar az molk-e jahān,Tā bekhānī mar Khodā rā dar nahān.

Pain is better than the dominion of the world,so that you may call on God in secret.

خواندَنِ بی‌دَرد اَز اَفسُردِگی‌ستخواندَنِ با دَرد اَز دِلبُردِگی‌ست

Khāndan-e bī-dard az afsordegīst,Khāndan-e bā dard az del-bordegīst.

Calling without pain comes from coldness of heart;calling with pain comes from a heart carried away in love.

An interpretive pair of lines preserved from the earlier English rendering:

Because pain and sorrow and loads of caresare the lot of God’s friends in the world.

Rūmī, Mathnawī, Book III, in the section beginning “Explaining that one’s calling ‘Allah’ is His saying ‘Here I am’”.

The poem’s central insight is not that every challenge is automatically a boon, nor that pain is proof of divine favor. It is that disruption of comfort can become a gift when it awakens the heart and turns it toward Allah, while uninterrupted ease can become a trial when it deepens heedlessness. In Rūmī’s poetic account, Pharaoh’s comfort worsened his spiritual condition because it gave him no occasion to cry out to God.

A story from the devotional lore of the Indian subcontinent makes a related point. Some retellings emphasize the generosity of Niẓām al-Dīn Awliyāʾ’s mother, while the early account grounds the family’s condition in severe poverty: at times there was little or nothing in the house. She would tell him:

اِمروز مِهمانِ خُدا هَستیم.

Emrūz mehmān-e Khodā hastīm.

“Today we are guests of God.”

A story preserved in Sufi devotional literature about Niẓām al-Dīn Awliyāʾ and his mother; see a modern discussion drawing on the early hagiographic source.

Their involuntary hunger was received as a gift rather than called meaningless. Later retellings say that when food was sufficient, he would sometimes ask his mother to pray that they might become “guests of God” again, because he yearned for the nearness he associated with those days; the earliest account verifies his delight in the phrase, but not every later detail. This story should not be used to romanticize food insecurity. Its concern is the spiritual transformation of hardship.

A sound hadith shows one way suffering may benefit a believer. ʿAbd Allāh ibn Masʿūd رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ narrated:

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الْأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ التَّيْمِيِّ، عَنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ سُوَيْدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ـ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ـ قَالَ: أَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي مَرَضِهِ وَهُوَ يُوعَكُ وَعْكًا شَدِيدًا، وَقُلْتُ: إِنَّكَ لَتُوعَكُ وَعْكًا شَدِيدًا. قُلْتُ: إِنَّ ذَاكَ بِأَنَّ لَكَ أَجْرَيْنِ؟ قَالَ: «أَجَلْ، مَا مِنْ مُسْلِمٍ يُصِيبُهُ أَذًى، إِلَّا حَاتَّ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ خَطَايَاهُ، كَمَا تَحَاتُّ وَرَقُ الشَّجَرِ».

Ḥaddathanā Muḥammadu ibn Yūsuf, ḥaddathanā Sufyān, ʿan al-Aʿmash, ʿan Ibrāhīma al-Taymī, ʿan al-Ḥārithi ibn Suwayd, ʿan ʿAbdi Allāh—raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhu—qāla: ataytu al-Nabiyya ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallama fī maraḍihi wa-huwa yūʿaku waʿkan shadīdan, wa-qultu: innaka la-tūʿaku waʿkan shadīdan. Qultu: inna dhāka bi-anna laka ajrayn? Qāla: “Ajal. Mā min muslimin yuṣībuhu adhan illā ḥātta Allāhu ʿanhu khaṭāyāhu, kamā taḥāttu waraqu al-shajar.”

“I visited the Prophet ﷺ during his illness, and he was suffering from a high fever. I said, ‘You have a high fever. Is it because you will have a double reward for it?’ He said, ‘Yes. No Muslim is afflicted with any harm except that Allah removes his sins as the leaves of a tree fall down.’”

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5647

The hadith promises expiation through affliction; it does not require us to seek harm, remain in abuse, refuse treatment, or treat another person’s pain as proof of special rank. Hardship may become mercy when it turns a person toward Allah. Ease may become a trial when it produces heedlessness. Neither circumstance, by itself, discloses a person’s standing with Allah.

Prayer as Active Trust

Riḍā does not silence supplication. Allah loves that those who love Him ask Him and beseech Him:

وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ ۖ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ ۖ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُوا لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُوا بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ

Wa-idhā saʾalaka ʿibādī ʿannī fa-innī qarīb; ujību daʿwata al-dāʿi idhā daʿāni; fa-l-yastajībū lī wa-l-yuʾminū bī laʿallahum yarshudūn.

“And if My servants ask thee about Me—behold, I am near; I respond to the call of him who calls, whenever he calls unto Me: let them, then, respond unto Me, and believe in Me, so that they might follow the right way.”

Al-Baqarah 2:186

A report attributed to the Prophet ﷺ intensifies this invitation:

حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا حَاتِمُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنْ أَبِي الْمَلِيحِ، عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ـ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «مَنْ لَمْ يَسْأَلِ اللَّهَ يَغْضَبْ عَلَيْهِ». قَالَ: وَرَوَى وَكِيعٌ وَغَيْرُ وَاحِدٍ عَنْ أَبِي الْمَلِيحِ هَذَا الْحَدِيثَ، وَلَا نَعْرِفُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ. وَأَبُو الْمَلِيحِ اسْمُهُ صُبَيْحٌ، سَمِعْتُ مُحَمَّدًا يَقُولُهُ، وَقَالَ: يُقَالُ لَهُ الْفَارِسِيُّ.

Ḥaddathanā Qutaybah, ḥaddathanā Ḥātimu ibn Ismāʿīl, ʿan Abī al-Malīḥ, ʿan Abī Ṣāliḥ, ʿan Abī Hurayrah—raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhu—qāla: qāla Rasūlu Allāhi ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam: “Man lam yasʾali Allāha yaghḍab ʿalayhi.” Qāla: wa-rawā Wakīʿun wa-ghayru wāḥidin ʿan Abī al-Malīḥ hādhā al-ḥadītha, wa-lā naʿrifuhu illā min hādhā al-wajh. Wa-Abū al-Malīḥ ismuhu Ṣubayḥ; samiʿtu Muḥammadan yaqūluhu, wa-qāla: yuqālu lahu al-Fārisī.

Abū Hurayrah رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ narrated that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Indeed, he who does not ask Allah, He becomes angry with him.”

Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 3373. The cited edition grades this chain ḍaʿīf, while al-Albānī graded the report ḥasan; the wording is also reported in al-Adab al-Mufrad 658.

Allah also joins supplication to worship and warns against pride:

وَقَالَ رَبُّكُمُ ادْعُونِي أَسْتَجِبْ لَكُمْ ۚ إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يَسْتَكْبِرُونَ عَنْ عِبَادَتِي سَيَدْخُلُونَ جَهَنَّمَ دَاخِرِينَ

Wa-qāla rabbukumu udʿūnī astajib lakum; inna alladhīna yastakbirūna ʿan ʿibādatī sa-yadkhulūna jahannama dākhirīn.

“But your Sustainer says: ‘Call unto Me, [and] I shall respond to you! Verily, they who are too proud to worship Me will enter hell, abased!’”

Ghāfir 40:60

Difficulty in praying should not automatically be diagnosed as arrogance. The verse instead reminds us that supplication is itself worship: the servant asks because Allah is Lord and the servant is in need.

A further report says:

ادْعُوا اللَّهَ وَأَنْتُمْ مُوقِنُونَ بِالْإِجَابَةِ.

Udʿū Allāha wa-antum mūqinūna bi-l-ijābah.

“… When you beseech Allah in supplication, be convinced that He will answer you.”

Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī 3479. The cited edition grades the report ḍaʿīf, while al-Albānī graded it ḥasan. Its full wording also warns against supplication from a heedless, distracted heart.

Certainty of response does not mean entitlement to our requested form or timing. It means that the prayer is heard, that Allah responds with wisdom, and that the servant does not approach Him as though His mercy or power were doubtful.

The Prophet’s Prayer for Contentment After the Decree

ʿAmmār ibn Yāsir رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ once led the people in a brief prayer. Some commented on its brevity. He replied that, although the prayer was brief, he had recited supplications that he heard from the Prophet ﷺ. The report is established: al-Albānī graded its chain ṣaḥīḥ, Shuʿayb al-Arnaʾūṭ judged it strong, and the cited modern edition labels it ḥasan. Its wording is especially precise: the Prophet ﷺ asks for الرِّضَاءَ بَعْدَ الْقَضَاءِ (al-riḍāʾa baʿda l-qaḍāʾ)—contentment after the decree.

اللَّهُمَّ بِعِلْمِكَ الْغَيْبَ، وَقُدْرَتِكَ عَلَى الْخَلْقِ، أَحْيِنِي مَا عَلِمْتَ الْحَيَاةَ خَيْرًا لِي، وَتَوَفَّنِي إِذَا عَلِمْتَ الْوَفَاةَ خَيْرًا لِي. اللَّهُمَّ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ خَشْيَتَكَ فِي الْغَيْبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ كَلِمَةَ الْحَقِّ فِي الرِّضَا وَالْغَضَبِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ الْقَصْدَ فِي الْفَقْرِ وَالْغِنَىٰ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ نَعِيمًا لَا يَنْفَدُ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ قُرَّةَ عَيْنٍ لَا تَنْقَطِعُ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ الرِّضَاءَ بَعْدَ الْقَضَاءِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ بَرْدَ الْعَيْشِ بَعْدَ الْمَوْتِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ لَذَّةَ النَّظَرِ إِلَىٰ وَجْهِكَ، وَالشَّوْقَ إِلَىٰ لِقَائِكَ، فِي غَيْرِ ضَرَّاءَ مُضِرَّةٍ، وَلَا فِتْنَةٍ مُضِلَّةٍ. اللَّهُمَّ، زَيِّنَّا بِزِينَةِ الْإِيمَانِ، وَاجْعَلْنَا هُدَاةً مُهْتَدِينَ.

Allāhumma bi-ʿilmika al-ghayba, wa-qudratika ʿalā al-khalqi, aḥyinī mā ʿalimta al-ḥayāta khayran lī, wa-tawaffanī idhā ʿalimta al-wafāta khayran lī. Allāhumma, wa-asʾaluka khashyataka fī al-ghaybi wa-l-shahādah, wa-asʾaluka kalimata al-ḥaqqi fī al-riḍā wa-l-ghaḍab, wa-asʾaluka al-qaṣda fī al-faqri wa-l-ghinā, wa-asʾaluka naʿīman lā yanfadu, wa-asʾaluka qurrata ʿaynin lā tanqaṭiʿu, wa-asʾaluka al-riḍāʾa baʿda al-qaḍāʾ, wa-asʾaluka barda al-ʿayshi baʿda al-mawt, wa-asʾaluka ladhdhata al-naẓari ilā wajhika, wa-l-shawqa ilā liqāʾika, fī ghayri ḍarrāʾa muḍirratin, wa-lā fitnatin muḍillah. Allāhumma, zayyinnā bi-zīnati al-īmān, wa-jʿalnā hudātan muhtadīn.

O Allah, by Your knowledge of the unseen and Your power over creation, keep me alive for as long as You know life to be good for me, and cause me to die when You know death to be good for me. O Allah, I ask You for reverent fear of You in private and in public; for the word of truth in contentment and in anger; for moderation in poverty and in wealth; for bliss that never ends; for comfort of the eye that never ceases; for contentment after the decree; for the comfort and ease of life after death; and for the delight of gazing upon Your Face and the longing to meet You, without a harmful affliction or a trial that leads astray. O Allah, adorn us with the beauty of faith, and make us rightly guided guides.

Sunan al-Nasāʾī 1305

This prayer keeps preference in its proper place: we may choose and plan, but Allah knows and has power; after the outcome becomes known, we ask Him to settle the heart.

Istikhārah: Choose for Me, Then Make Me Content

The same movement appears in the rigorously authentic prayer of istikhārah. Jābir ibn ʿAbd Allāh رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا said that the Prophet ﷺ taught it to the Companions as carefully as he taught them a sūrah of the Qurʾān. After two voluntary units of prayer, one says:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ، وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ؛ فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ، وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ، وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ. اللَّهُمَّ، إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي — أَوْ قَالَ: عَاجِلِ أَمْرِي وَآجِلِهِ — فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي، وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي، ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ. وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي — أَوْ قَالَ: فِي عَاجِلِ أَمْرِي وَآجِلِهِ — فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي، وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ، وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ، ثُمَّ أَرْضِنِي بِهِ.

Allāhumma innī astakhīruka bi-ʿilmika, wa-astaqdiruka bi-qudratika, wa-asʾaluka min faḍlika al-ʿaẓīm; fa-innaka taqdiru wa-lā aqdiru, wa-taʿlamu wa-lā aʿlamu, wa-anta ʿallāmu al-ghuyūb. Allāhumma, in kunta taʿlamu anna hādhā al-amra khayrun lī fī dīnī wa-maʿāshī wa-ʿāqibati amrī—aw qāla: ʿājili amrī wa-ājilihi—fa-qdurhu lī, wa-yassirhu lī, thumma bārik lī fīhi. Wa-in kunta taʿlamu anna hādhā al-amra sharrun lī fī dīnī wa-maʿāshī wa-ʿāqibati amrī—aw qāla: fī ʿājili amrī wa-ājilihi—fa-ṣrifhu ʿannī, wa-ṣrifnī ʿanhu, wa-qdur liya al-khayra ḥaythu kāna, thumma arḍinī bihi.

O Allah, I ask You to choose for me through Your knowledge; I ask You to enable me through Your power; and I ask You from Your immense bounty. You have power, while I have none; You know, while I do not; and You are the One who fully knows the unseen. O Allah, if You know this matter to be good for me in my faith, my livelihood, and the outcome of my affair—or in its near and distant consequences—then decree it for me, make it easy for me, and bless it for me. If You know this matter to be harmful to me in my faith, my livelihood, and the outcome of my affair—or in its near and distant consequences—then turn it away from me and turn me away from it. Decree the good for me wherever it may be, and then make me content with it.

Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1166. The narrator added that the person should name the matter. The authentic variant ثُمَّ رَضِّنِي بِهِ (thumma raḍḍinī bihi) occurs in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6382.

Istikhārah is not a technique for discovering the unseen. It is a confession that Allah knows it and we do not. Its final request is not, “Make the future agree with my desire,” but, “Decree the good wherever it is, and then make me content with it.”

The Prayer of Sayyidinā ʿAlī

An Imāmī report in al-Kāfī 2:576, no. 14 preserves this prayer from Sayyidinā ʿAlī ibn Abī Ṭālib رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ through Imām ʿAlī Zayn al-ʿĀbidīn:

اللَّهُمَّ مُنَّ عَلَيَّ بِالتَّوَكُّلِ عَلَيْكَ، وَالتَّفْوِيضِ إِلَيْكَ، وَالرِّضَا بِقَدَرِكَ، وَالتَّسْلِيمِ لِأَمْرِكَ، حَتَّىٰ لَا أُحِبَّ تَعْجِيلَ مَا أَخَّرْتَ، وَلَا تَأْخِيرَ مَا عَجَّلْتَ، يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِينَ.

Allāhumma munna ʿalayya bi-l-tawakkuli ʿalayka, wa-l-tafwīḍi ilayka, wa-l-riḍā bi-qadarika, wa-l-taslīmi li-amrika, ḥattā lā uḥibba taʿjīla mā akhkharta, wa-lā taʾkhīra mā ʿajjalta, yā rabba al-ʿālamīn.

O Allah, graciously grant me reliance upon You, the entrusting of my affairs to You, contentment with Your decree, and surrender to Your command, until I no longer wish to hasten what You have delayed or delay what You have hastened, O Lord of all worlds.

Mirʾāt al-ʿUqūl 12:453, on al-Kāfī 2:576, no. 14. Al-Majlisī graded its chain حَسَنٌ كَالصَّحِيحِ (ḥasanun ka-l-ṣaḥīḥ—“good, akin to sound”) according to Imāmī hadith terminology. I have not located an independent Sunni chain for the exact wording, so I cite it with that qualification.

The order of the prayer is instructive: tawakkul—reliance; tafwīḍ—entrusting the affair; riḍā—contentment; and taslīm—surrender. It asks not only for patience with Allah’s timing, but for freedom from the fantasy that our clock should govern His.

Two Further Supplications

A widely circulated supplication for difficulty in one’s livelihood says:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ عَلَىٰ نَفْسِي وَمَالِي وَدِينِي، اللَّهُمَّ رَضِّنِي بِقَضَائِكَ، وَبَارِكْ لِي فِي قَدَرِكَ، حَتَّىٰ لَا أُحِبَّ تَعْجِيلَ مَا أَخَّرْتَ، وَلَا تَأْخِيرَ مَا عَجَّلْتَ.

Bismi Allāhi ʿalā nafsī wa-mālī wa-dīnī. Allāhumma raḍḍinī bi-qaḍāʾika, wa-bārik lī fī qadarika, ḥattā lā uḥibba taʿjīla mā akhkharta, wa-lā taʾkhīra mā ʿajjalta.

“In the name of Allah with regard to myself, my property, and my religion. O Allah, cause me to be satisfied and pleased with Your decree, and bless me in what is assigned for me, so that I will not want to hasten what You have delayed, nor delay what You have hastened.”

Reported from Ibn ʿUmar in al-Ṭabarānī’s al-Duʿāʾ, no. 410, and Ibn al-Sunnī’s ʿAmal al-Yawm wa-l-Laylah, no. 350. Its attribution to the Prophet ﷺ is weak; the chain contains a transmitter judged abandoned. See the source and grading details.

It may be recited as a sound prayer in meaning, but should not be presented without qualification as an established Prophetic formula.

Saʿīd ibn Jubayr رَحِمَهُ اللَّهُ would supplicate:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ صِدْقَ التَّوَكُّلِ عَلَيْكَ، وَحُسْنَ الظَّنِّ بِكَ.

Allāhumma innī asʾaluka ṣidqa al-tawakkuli ʿalayka, wa-ḥusna al-ẓanni bika.

“O Allah, I ask You to grant me true reliance upon You and good expectations of You.”

Muṣannaf Ibn Abī Shaybah, no. 36491; Abū Nuʿaym, Ḥilyat al-Awliyāʾ 4:274.

In addition to duʿāʾ, our tradition enjoins charity. The relationship between ṣadaqah and the averting of hardship requires careful, separate treatment and deserves a post of its own.

Training the Heart

How, then, may we train the heart to think well of Allah? Contentment with His decree is a station sought by those who love Him. It does not require emotional cheerfulness about pain; it asks the servant to remain anchored in truth while feeling it.

First, learn the One whose decree you are being asked to trust. Riḍā grows from knowledge of Allah: He is al-Raḥmān, the Entirely Merciful; al-Ḥakīm, the Perfectly Wise; and al-Laṭīf, Subtle in His kindness. He does not wrong anyone by even an atom’s weight. Trust without knowledge easily becomes a slogan. Trust grounded in His Names becomes worship.

Second, separate the fact of pain from the judgment you make about Allah. “This hurts” may be completely true. “Therefore Allah has wronged me” is false. “I do not yet see the wisdom” may be honest. “Therefore there is no wisdom” claims knowledge we do not possess.

Third, make istikhārah part of consequential choices, and make the supplication transmitted through ʿAmmār a regular prayer. Ask for the good, take the lawful means, and ask to be made content with what Allah finally decrees.

Fourth, keep acting within the responsibility Allah has given you. Seek treatment. Repair what you can. Apologize when you have caused harm. Resist injustice lawfully. Grieve with those who grieve. Riḍā does not cancel duty; it purifies duty from the illusion that we control every result.

Finally, give hidden wisdom time. Some mercies become visible years later; some will not be understood in this life. Thinking well of Allah does not require us to invent an explanation for every tragedy. Sometimes the most truthful sentence is simply: My Lord knows; I do not. My Lord is just; I will not accuse Him. My Lord is merciful; I will keep turning to Him.

The servant who reaches this station is not a servant without tears, questions, preferences, or effort. It is a servant whose pain no longer decides what Allah is like.

Verses Quoted by Ibn al-Qayyim

The following verses, quoted by Ibn al-Qayyim in Zād al-Maʿād, turn suspicion away from Allah and toward the self that is prone to ignorance and injustice. They warn against self-righteousness and attribute every real good within us to Allah’s gift; they should not be read as a call to self-hatred.

فَلَا تَظْنُنَّ بِرَبِّكَ ظَنَّ سَوْءٍفَإِنَّ اللَّهَ أَوْلَىٰ بِالْجَمِيلِ

Fa-lā taẓunnanna bi-rabbika ẓanna sawʾin,Fa-inna Allāha awlā bi-l-jamīl.

Never think ill of your Lord,for Allah is most worthy of every good and beautiful thought.

وَلَا تَظْنُنَّ بِنَفْسِكَ قَطُّ خَيْرًاوَكَيْفَ بِظَالِمٍ جَانٍ جَهُولِ

Wa-lā taẓunnanna bi-nafsika qaṭṭu khayran,Wa-kayfa bi-ẓālimin jānin jahūl.

And never presume your own self to be inherently good—what good can be expected of a self that is unjust, transgressing, and profoundly ignorant?

وَقُلْ: يَا نَفْسُ، مَأْوَىٰ كُلِّ سُوءٍأَتَرْجُو الْخَيْرَ مِنْ مَيِّتٍ بَخِيلِ؟

Wa-qul: yā nafsu, maʾwā kulli sūʾin,A-tarjū al-khayra min mayyitin bakhīl?

And say: “O self, dwelling place of every evil!Can goodness be hoped for from something spiritually dead and miserly?”

وَظُنَّ بِنَفْسِكَ السُّوْأَىٰ تَجِدْهَاكَذَاكَ، وَخَيْرُهَا كَالْمُسْتَحِيلِ

Wa-ẓunna bi-nafsika al-sūʾā tajidhā,Kadhāka, wa-khayruhā ka-l-mustaḥīl.

Assume the worst of your own self, and you will find it to be just so;goodness arising from it on its own is almost an impossibility.

وَمَا بِكَ مِنْ تُقًى فِيهَا وَخَيْرٍفَتِلْكَ مَوَاهِبُ الرَّبِّ الْجَلِيلِ

Wa-mā bika min tuqan fīhā wa-khayrin,Fa-tilka mawāhibu al-rabbi al-jalīl.

Whatever God-consciousness and goodness you find within yourself,these are gifts bestowed by the Majestic Lord.

وَلَيْسَ بِهَا وَلَا مِنْهَا وَلَكِنْمِنَ الرَّحْمَٰنِ، فَاشْكُرْ لِلدَّلِيلِ

Wa-laysa bihā wa-lā minhā wa-lākin,Mina al-Raḥmāni, fa-shkur li-l-dalīl.

They are neither produced by the self nor derived from it;they come from the All-Merciful—so give thanks for this evidence of His grace.

Verses quoted by Ibn al-Qayyim in Zād al-Maʿād; the opening of the verse sequence also appears in earlier sources under another attribution.

Do Not Leave Me to Myself

To conclude, Anas ibn Mālik رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ reported that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ taught Sayyidah Fāṭimah رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا to say in the morning and evening:

وَعَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِفَاطِمَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا: «مَا يَمْنَعُكِ أَنْ تَسْمَعِي مَا أُوصِيكِ بِهِ، أَنْ تَقُولِي إِذَا أَصْبَحْتِ وَإِذَا أَمْسَيْتِ: يَا حَيُّ يَا قَيُّومُ، بِرَحْمَتِكَ أَسْتَغِيثُ، أَصْلِحْ لِي شَأْنِي كُلَّهُ، وَلَا تَكِلْنِي إِلَىٰ نَفْسِي طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ».

Wa-ʿan Anasi ibn Mālikin raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhu qāla: qāla Rasūlu Allāhi ṣallā Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallama li-Fāṭimata raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhā: “Mā yamnaʿuki an tasmaʿī mā ūṣīki bihi, an taqūlī idhā aṣbaḥti wa-idhā amsayti: Yā Ḥayyu yā Qayyūm, bi-raḥmatika astaghīthu, aṣliḥ lī shaʾnī kullahu, wa-lā takilnī ilā nafsī ṭarfata ʿayn.”

“O Living One, O Self-Sustaining One! By Your mercy I seek relief. Set right all my affairs, and do not leave me to myself for even the blink of an eye.”

Al-Nasāʾī, al-Sunan al-Kubrā, in the morning and evening remembrances; see the report and grading discussion.

And I close with this supplication, composed from the themes and transmitted phrases gathered above:

اللَّهُمَّ زَيِّنَّا بِزِينَةِ الْإِيمَانِ، وَاهْدِ قُلُوبَنَا عِنْدَ الْمُصِيبَةِ، وَارْزُقْنَا الرِّضَا بَعْدَ الْقَضَاءِ، وَاجْعَلْنَا مِنَ الَّذِينَ رَضِيتَ عَنْهُمْ وَرَضُوا عَنْكَ.

Allāhumma zayyinnā bi-zīnati al-īmān, wa-hdi qulūbanā ʿinda al-muṣībah, wa-rzuqnā al-riḍā baʿda al-qaḍāʾ, wa-jʿalnā mina alladhīna raḍīta ʿanhum wa-raḍū ʿanka.

O Allah, adorn us with the beauty of faith, guide our hearts when calamity comes, grant us contentment after the decree, and make us among those with whom You are pleased and who are pleased with You.

May we be among those of whom He says:

رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمْ وَرَضُوا عَنْهُ

Raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhum wa-raḍū ʿanhu.

“Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him.”

وَاللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ.

Wa-Allāhu aʿlam.

And Allah knows best.