As-salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. (May the Peace, Mercy and Blessings of Allah be upon you)
Thinking Well of Allah (حسن الظن بالله)
....whereas the others, who cared mainly for themselves, unjustly entertained wrong thoughts about God - thoughts of pagan ignorance.. Al-Imran (The Family of Imran) - 3:154
The ayat above highlights that those who are selfish, or who care mainly for themselves have thoughts of pagan ignorance vis-à-vis their state of unhappiness with what has been apportioned for them by Divine Wisdom. These kind of unmerited thoughts about God, being the thoughts of ignorance, a posteriori afflict the hearts of the ignorant, relegating them into a state of perpetual antagonism against their own state of being. Always thinking that Allah could and should do better when it comes to matters that concern them.
This post is an attempt to introspect, to delve deep into my soul, to find out how guilty am I of this failing?
Thinking well of others is something that is frequently prescribed to us in Qur'an as well as in the traditions of the Prophet(ﷺ). For example:
تَدَابَرُوا، وَكُونُوا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ إِخْوَانًا "
Narrated Abu Huraira(رضي الله عنه): The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "Beware of negative thinking/suspicion of others, for is the worst of falsehood. and do not look for the others' faults, and do not spy on one another, and do not incite, and do not be jealous of one another and do not hate one another, and do not desert (stop talking to) one another. And O, Allah's worshipers! Be brothers!"
Referenced from bukhari via sunnah.com (here)
Looking at the statement إياكم والظن ، فان الظن أكذب الحديث, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has categorically warned us against thinking negatively about others. It begs the question that when thinking ill of others is the worst kind of thinking, what can we say of "thinking ill of Allah"? Surely it transcends anything that we can think of!
Any true believer will shudder at the mere idea of falling into such a category of people who think negatively of Allah, and yet it may be possible that it is something that do while being oblivious to it.
The scholar Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr (Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah) writes in his Zad Al Ma’ad:
فأكثر الخلق بل كلهم إلا من شاء الله يظنون بالله غير الحق ظن السوء ؛
فإن غالب بني آدم يعتقد أنه مبخوس الحق ، ناقص الحظ ، وأنه يستحق فوق ما أعطاه الله ،
ولسان حاله يقول : ظلمني ربي ومنعني ما أستحق ، ونفسه تشهد عليه لذلك ،
وهو بلسانه ينكره ولا يتجاسر على التصريح به ومن فتش نفسه وتغلغل في معرفة دفائنها وطواياها ،
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ولو فتشت من فتشته ، لرأيت عنده تعتباً على القدر وملامة له
، واقتراحاً عليه خلاف ما جرى به ، وأنه ينبغي أن يكون كذا وكذا ، فمستقل ومستكثر ، وفتش نفسك هل أنت سالم من ذلك :
فإن تنـجُ منها تنجُ من ذي عظيمة وإلا فإني لا أخالك ناجياً
“Most people – in fact everybody, barring those saved by Allah –assume the worst with regards to Allah, unjustly. Most people believe that they are deprived of what they rightfully deserve, or suffer from bad luck, or certainly deserve more than what Allah has provided for them.
It is as if they are saying: ‘My Lord has wronged me and deprived me of what I deserve,’ and their soul bears witness to this while their tongue states otherwise, not true to what is in the heart.
.....…So, delve into your own self: are you free from this? If you are, then you have been protected from something truly terrible. Otherwise, I do not see that you have been saved.”
One the one hand, it is a terrible thing, and must be avoided, and the opposite of it is a part of the perfection of our religious devotions:
“Indeed, having good thoughts concerning Allah is from the perfection of the worship of Allah.”
Referenced from tirmidhi via sunnah.com (here).
Not only should this be the state of our heart during our stint here on earth, but it is paramount that we should be safe from this before we pass on to the other world.
The Prophet (ﷺ) in his parting words of advice, emphatically stated:
I heard Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) as saying three days before his death: None of you should court death except in a state of assuming the best about Allah.
Referenced from muslim via sunnah.com (here).
Another narration explains why the "Mercy to the Worlds" (ﷺ) advised us such:
‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud (رضي الله عنه) said:
“By the One besides Whom none is worthy of worship, the believer is not given anything [good] better than his good expectations of Allah, and by the One besides Who none is worthy of worship, no servant of Allah expects good of Him except that Allah gives him what he expected, since all good is in His Hand.”
Knowing this, I had time to introspect, where examined myself, and found out that I have, on occasion, wished or wanted my situation to be different from what it is. And I have frequently looked at the condition of the world, and thought that it could be better.
...it may well be that you hate a thing the while it is good for you. Al-Baqara (The Cow) - 2:216
And at the same time, having read the ayat above, I also do believe that Allah knows what is best. It is these two contradicting feelings that I must reconcile.
Surely, if I dislike something, it may be that I do not understand/know it. I must make attempts to understand it to the best of my ability. For doesn't sayyidina Ali(عليه السلام)say:
People often hate/oppose what they do not know. (Nahjul Balaghah)
There is a caveat, however. How can an ordinary mortal like me understand the secrets of the things around us, when from the story of Musa (عليه السلام) and Khidr (عليه السلام) in the Qur'an it can be seen that even an apostle of the caliber of Musa (عليه السلام) could not fathom some happenings? In this case, I conclude that despite my best intentions and efforts, if I have not understood some happening that goes against my thinking, I must place my complete trust in Allah's Wisdom and Knowledge. And I should pray to Allah to guide me on this.
If I truly believe in Allah's Perfection, then how can I not be happy with His Decisions? We often say ( سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ), but we need to realize the connotation of what it means. It means we truly believe that Allah is free of any weaknesses, defects and short-comings. And once we believe that, there should be no hesitation on our part in accepting His Decisions, without even a hint of second-guessing on our part. It does not mean that we cannot seek knowledge, or seek to understand. Take the example from our fellow creation, the angels, when they wished to understand Allah's Decision, they started with (سُبْحَانَكَ):
قَالُواْ سُبْحَانَكَ لاَ عِلْمَ لَنَا إِلاَّ مَا عَلَّمْتَنَا إِنَّكَ أَنتَ الْعَلِيمُ الْحَكِيمُ
One of the well known statements that indicates Allah's Perfection, and has innumerable benefits, is mentioned in this hadith:
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ سُمَىٍّ، عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " مَنْ قَالَ سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ. فِي يَوْمٍ مِائَةَ مَرَّةٍ حُطَّتْ خَطَايَاهُ، وَإِنْ كَانَتْ مِثْلَ زَبَدِ الْبَحْرِ ".
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever says, 'Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi,' one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea.
Referenced from sunnah.com (here)
( سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ) as a statement indicates the absence of something (defects), so once we understand that Allah is free from all that is unworthy, it is coupled with the next statement (وَبِحَمْدِهِ), means "everything Praiseworthy belongs to Him". So this is a powerful combination, which when recited helps rid us of our sins, and alleviates the disease in the heart, the disease of doubting His Decisions. Once we internalize it, then the next stage is to elevate our faith to those well-pleased.
There is an interesting story that once Ammar bin Yasir (رضي الله عنه) led the people in prayers but he made the prayer rather short. Bear in mind that this was a time when people would enjoy long prayers, with long recitations, and hence there were quite a few objections to this unsatisfactory length of the prayer. Ammar(رضي الله عنه) responded by saying that despite the length being short, he recited a supplication that the Prophet(ﷺ) used to recite, as if saying implicitly that this more than makes up for the brevity of the prayer. The supplication is:
I have highlighted a portion of the supplication that indicates the state of being of those who truly love Allah. Pleasure at His Decree is a state much sought after by the dearest of Allah. There are several do'a to this effect among our literature, for example:
When you leave your house and are afflicted with hardship, why don't you pray:
'In the name of Allah with regard to myself, my property, and my deen. O Allah, cause me to be satisfied and pleased with Your decree, and bless me in what is assigned for me, so that I will not want to hasten what You have delayed, nor to delay what You have hastened'.
Supplications to this effect have been made by the righteous people, for example sayyidina Ali(عليه السلام):
O Allah, grace me with(the ability to) trust You, and commit (my affairs) to You, and (bless me) with contentment with your Decree, and submission to Your Will until I no longer long for hastening that which You have delayed, or delaying that which You would hasten, O Lord of the Worlds.
Sa’id bin Jubayr (رضي الله عنه) would supplicate:
“O Allah, I ask you to grant me true reliance on You and good expectations of You.”
Another aspect of this state needs an introduction through the poem of Maulana Rumi, from his Masnavi:
تا بکرد او دعوی عز و جلال
تا ننالد سوی حق آن بدگهر
حق ندادش درد و رنج و اندهان
تا بخوانی مر خدا را در نهان
خواندن با درد از دلبردگیست
So that you may call on God in secret.
The central thesis here is that challenges to our state of comfort are a boon from Allah, and we should patiently and happily accept them, for this is the choice Allah has made for His friends in this world. A life of comfort completely free of pain and worry, on the contrary, was not only given to the Pharaoh as a punishment, but also ultimately led to exacerbation of his spiritual condition.
There is a story from the Indian sub-continent Sufi lore that when hazrat Nizamuddin was a young boy, the mother was very generous to the point that often little or nothing would be left for them to consume. At which she would say to him:
This fast was seen as a gift from God. And when food was sufficient, sometimes he would tell his mother to pray that they become guests of God again, for he yearned for it.
To understand why Allah sometimes chooses difficulties for his friends, the following hadith can shed some light:
Narrated `Abdullah(رضي الله عنه): I visited the Prophet (ﷺ) during his ailments and he was suffering from a high fever. I said, "You have a high fever. Is it because you will have a double reward for it?" He said, "Yes, for no Muslim is afflicted with any harm but that Allah will remove his sins as the leaves of a tree fall down."Referenced from bukhari via sunnah.com (here)
The last point that can be made in this context is that Allah truly loves that those who love Him should ask Him, beseech Him:
And Allah does not like if we do not ask Him:
Abu Hurairah (رضي الله عنه) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Indeed, he who does not ask Allah, he gets angry with him.”
Referenced from tirmidhi via sunnah.com (here)
Not only that, those who do not ask, are seen to be arrogant, or it is only the arrogant who do not ask, or are not invited to ask, as in the case of the Pharaoh above:
So I remind myself, and my fellow believers, let us introspect and cleanse ourselves from this shortcoming, if we have it, and think well of Allah, and let us ask Him for help and guidance, with the belief that He will accept our supplications. As the Prophet (ﷺ) advised us in a hadith:
....When you beseech Allah in supplication, be convinced that He will answer you." Referenced from tirmidhi via sunnah.com (here).
In addition to do'a (supplications), we are enjoined to do charity (sadaqah) to avoid things that are uncomfortable, but that needs a lengthy treatment, and needs a post by itself.
To conclude, I would like to share a doa' quoted in An-Nasai through Anas Bin Malik (رضي الله عنه) that Rasoolullah (ﷺ) taught to sayyidah Fatimah (عليها السلام):
Wa Allahu 'Alam (And Allah is the All-Knowing)
